OP if you want to wear your FTP gear then wear it. Does Slash ask if it's okay to wear a Top Hat? Did Gaga ask if it was okay to wear a dress of meats? Does Joan Rivers seek permission or acceptance prior to getting her 46th face lift? No. If you want to wear something wear it with pride and go from there. Why not wear it as a dress with some nice tights or leggings.
You should not only wear it but you should also get the ace of spades tattooed on your wrist so you can hold it up and announce that you've always got an ace up your sleeve. Guaranteed good times had by all.