Originally Posted by northeastbeast
What's interesting is how he dated women for so long. If he had sex with those women there must be some type of arousal right? I guess what I am asking is are there different levels of gayness?
1. This is extremely common - most people who later identify as gay have had sex with a member of the opposite gender.
2. Arousal is physiological. Desire is psychological.
There's "different levels of gayness" in that some people fall somewhere outside the gay/straight boxes we tend to shove people into (bisexual, "mostly" gay/straight with some other gender attraction), but most people don't get that deeply into this outside of discussions with very close friends/partners.