I don't want to chime in with anything already mentioned ad nauseam in this thread (or other similar threads), so I'll just throw in some loose thoughts:
First of all, this is a tough issue to really dissect at a site like this. Asking 2+2 members for the reasons why women (or any other group) don't play poker is akin to asking the members of a Bible study group why someone doesn't believe in God. You'll get a variety of guesses, anecdotes, hypotheses and conjecture, but ultimately, you won't ever hear from an atheist. So it would be difficult to truly know what they think.
Same thing applies here: of all the different and disparate opinions participating in these threads, there is one group we won't hear from: women who have chosen not to play poker. Sure, we hear from women who DO play the game (btw michelle227, your contributions to this thread have been great to read). But unless someone can poll a bunch of non-poker players, then report here what they had to say, we're all just guessing what the motivations are.
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Originally Posted by michelle227
PNIA, on the other hand, at least airs on a channel a half-dozen or so people get on satellite...
For what it's worth, PNIA already did a "ladies' night" cash game. Several of them, as I recall. Even then, the rest of your point is spot-on: anyone watching it was already interested in poker.
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Finally, I'll leave with this...
Bunco went from being a con game in the 19th century to a gambling game in the 1920s to a pastime with a predominantly female player base in the last 20 years. There was even a Bunco World Championship a few years ago. It was televised... on Oxygen (the network for women). My high school class hosted a charity bunco tournament to raise some money for one of our old classmates a few years back.
Somewhere on my street, there is a regular weekly bunco game. My neighbor once invited me to it when she found out I played poker. She figured I might enjoy it, since our local bunco night apparently resembles the stereotypical poker night – at least, in terms of it being a social event. A bunch of friends, copious amounts of alcohol, lively conversation, plus a game.
Due to my schedule, I could not play in the charity tourney nor my neighbor's home game. However, I will admit that my inner monologue went "I don't want to play that...that's a women's game." (Note: that I would impose gender roles on a game is unusual, given that I've spent my entire professional life working primarily with women's sports.) I later asked my neighbor's husband if he ever played in the game. His answer was more or less "Bunco? Nah, that's a woman's game."
That's a long way of saying that men sometimes do the same thing when it comes to activities generally associated with women.
However, it also gives me hope when it comes to women embracing poker. If bunco can make such a turn that the pendulum has swung completely in the opposite direction, who knows what could happen with poker. And it just might take a few generations to make such a pivot. So whatever the reasons are that women don't flock to poker, those reasons might be completely different years from now.