Originally Posted by Chris Daddy Cool
unfortunately these situations will always be a negative freeroll. all it takes is one time to completely screw you over.
this is why most people ask the other party to send first... if i was the one asking i would send first and if it was the other guy asking he's send first, even with friends i'd done dozens of xfers with, only way to really protect yourself.
Exactly, loaning money is like holding AdKd on a board of QhJsTc, the pot has $0 in it, and your opponent shoves and flips over AhKh before you act...