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Originally Posted by zanesmom
My opinion, which I stated earlier, he is a man she is a woman. So far as I can tell it has only been MEN who cannot believe her claim. I don't even know how many male poker players I've heard make bold claims about their earnings and success and I've never heard anyone ask for proof.
My female friend who is known as a very competent PLO player in our area claimed that she was averaging $2,300 a week from a juicy PLO cash game and all these dudes couldn't believe her. They didn't ask for proof (as there's really no way to prove that) but they just piled on and concluded that maybe she has made that much once or twice...but not consistently. Let's not forget that she 100% plays poker to support herself and has 2 kids at university...to which some dudes responded "it's probably her husband who pays the bills". As a female who earns 80% of the money in my household I find that incredibly sexist. Not to mention that it is well known that she regularly takes $500 HU matches against tourists and usually wins.....but obviously she's lying/exaggerating.
Now, dudes in our same circle make similar claims all the time and nobody really bats an eyelash.
I realize that for a female to post anything on 2+2 that they believe any sexism is occuring is highly controversial and likely to be belittled. That doesn't change my opinion one bit.
wait what idk who you talk to and maybe our experiences are just different but it's a running theme among my group of poker friends that literally every mtt pro and every live pro lies about how much they make and that the vast majority are delusional about their abilities thinking that if they weren't so unlucky they really would be making that much. Didn't Polk even do a video about how much poker pros really make? Poker is a world of egotistical morons who value their worth as a person on poker ability so get insanely jealous when people they perceive as worse than them make more money or don't struggle as much as they do. So you simultaneously have a bunch of people lying about how much they make and also a bunch of people who give a **** how much other people make. Then when someone doesn't like someone else they lash out by questioning how much they make.
I'm sure there's an element of sexism and certain men who derive their masculinity from their perceived poker skills (*cough Dentale *cough) will probably question a woman more, but I promise you dick-swinging with money claims (from I make more money, I'm richer, etc.) happens plenty in poker and it almost always does not involve a woman, mainly because there are so few female poker pros.
As for your friend who claims she makes that much at plo, I'd imagine the questioning has less to do with sexism and more to do with the fact that if she does that she's making 6 figures and there are not very many live pros doing that who aren't playing 10/20+ and your description didn't make it seem like it was a very big game. If it's 10/20+ it's perfectly reasonable, 5/10 it means she's one of the better pros in the game, 2/5 or lower and it means she would have to be pretty much the best live plo player in the world or in the softest live plo game to make that consistently. fwiw I don't think people are as likely to say it to their face but I've heard plenty of men say behind other men's (who claim to be poker pros) back that their wife is probably making the real money.