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Originally Posted by Palikari
Please name ten well known high stakes players that are openly gay. Not rumours.
I'll take the under on ten. When I saw this thread yesterday I did every imagine Google search for outed players since I would swear I read an article about one years ago. Yet I couldn't find anything. Everything I found consisted of rumors, innuendo, gossip, etc. It's actually somewhat amusing to read what gets perceived as "clues" of homosexuality. (e.g. I've worked in college athletics for almost 20 years. A while back, I discovered that people thought
I was gay simply because I am assigned mostly to our women's sports teams. My response: "if I was gay, wouldn't I want to work with all of the men's teams?")
Also, I'm glad someone mentioned the Todd Glass appearance on Maron's podcast. I suspect much of Glass' reasons for concealing this part of his life, then revealing it now, match that of Somerville's.
Finally, to those who say the risks of enduring violence or verbal attacks from bigots is exaggerated -- I actually agree with you. Sure, we still learn of incidents of anti-gay violence, and any search for a news story on the subject yields thousands of results. But I suspect the overall acceptance-to-persecution ratio of the gay community is better than the media would suggest, perhaps because of some availability heuristic at work. Hell, Somerville himself has voiced his surprise by the positive response to his blog, as if he had braced himself for some backlash.
The way I see it, if Somerville
felt those risks, then they were real to him. So facing those fears
is a courageous act, and I say good on him for doing it. As has been said already in this thread (and again on Somerville's Twitter feed) coming out shouldn't be a big deal. One day it won't be. But even in the 21 century, it still is.