After several more hours of sending SS's and emails, my money finally showed up after they told me it was never sent. Not even an email telling me the money was put in. I was about to talk to live chat again for the 5th time when i checked my account to see.
One of the hold up's was CS kept telling me LTC.blockr.io shows no info sent/confirmed. Well two other sites show it confirmed. Money is on the account and blockr still shows nothing.
In the end it's in my account but I wouldn't recommend this headache to anyone trying to put much on the site.
Would the money show up if i did nothing? Who knows, but when it should appear in 5 min to an hour at most per BOL's deposit page it's unacceptable.
FWIW i don't blame Litecoin, it seemed to work right from that end that i can tell. In my mind there is 0% chance i did something wrong.
This would have been simple to see that it was sent to the right place instead of arguing, stalling and saying i didn't send SS's.
Just a FYI for anyone thinking of doing the same thing. It may work fine for you I dunno but i wanted to explain in case anyone else was searching.
All that said I will try to see what i can do at the BOL poker tables