Im sorry if this has already been stated in this 200+ page thread, but as a poker dealer for many years, I can tell you what a LOT of us dealers are thinking in regards to tipping (keep in mind I was a poker player way before dealing).
[we] in reference to the below refers to myself and MANY other poker dealers
1) if you never tip, We hate you. well hate is a strong word. we just find you extremely annoying, and wish you lose all hands. we wish you never raise any rivers (usually implies your going to win). We HATE you when you win HUGE ass pots especially from anyone that tips a lot.
To make matters worse, if you are a Frequent Flyer of our casino, WE have talked **** and/or complained about you to our peers. The sad reality is, even if you're the nicest person in the world, We just get annoyed that you cant grasp the concept of tipping a dealer when YOU can see other people doing it. And if its a personal choice not to do it, even worse.
2) if you tip once in a while - not the greatest treat for a dealer, but then again, not the worst. We are happy to get something.
3) tip a dollar every hand regardless of pot size - theres 2 parts to this:
Part 1) 10/20 and lower limits : in small pots, $1 is fine. its what we expect. in big pots (big is different to everyone, but we agree that 7-10BB pots is an average "big" pot, tipping $1 is annoying and you are almost as bad as the no tipper. i know, i know, its stupid to think that, right? after all, $1 is better than nothing... but its just the initial feeling we get. cheap ass/skate/etc all come to mind because we know none of these people are grinding these small games for a living (at least probably not successfully, maybe additional income)
Part 2 - bigger stakes 20/40 up to 100/200: theres usually only 2 categories. $1 tipper and no tip. no tip? see above. $1 tipper : completely expected. we dont hate you personally, we understand you are probably playing for a living. we just want our down at the higher limit games to be over because we hate being there. As long as you consistently tip at higher stakes games, we appreciate it very much. ironically you're considered a GOOD person if you always tip at the higher stakes. we're happy to accomodate you.
Theres another category of people that we actually HATE. The no tip + troublemaker. if you dont tip, and you think you are the POTUS, we have a problem with you. especially if you're slowing down the game. dont screw with us, especially on purpose. and dont slow down the game.
4) tip based on pot size - we love you the most, we smile at you, say hi to you, may even say bye to you. we learn your name, may crack jokes with you. we cater to you, even if you temporarily yell at us or hate us for dealing that bad river. we understand, we feel your pain, after all, we just cost ourselves that huge tip.
5) tip based on same industry: dealer on dealer tipping is pretty much expected to be higher than average. typically we take care of our own. mutual respect for dealers to dealers.
As a dealer, I expect to average $1 per hand. I deal pretty fast and my mechanics are excellent. Ive had many people compliment my skills and tell me how professional I am. I average 25-29 hands per 40 minutes. Naturally, I'm smiling all the time, even if I hate you
Im not advocating that everyone should tip. this isnt a please tip us thread. I am just letting you know as dealers, how we truly feel about the different kinds of recs and regs that come into our casinos.
I myself believe in tipping for great service. if a dealer is quick and professional, then tip them. dont think that you only have to tip $1 because "its the norm". if you want to tip $2 or $3, go for it. trust me, noone will complain, and we really appreciate you as a patron. obviously if a dealer is slow and incompetent, then dont tip. although since im in the industry, I never NOT tip for incompetence out of obligation to my peers.