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Originally Posted by FrankyRizzo
I was just playing this past weekend at Parx at 1-2. I was running very good and winning alot and ran 200 into 800 in about 3 hours. I was tipping the dealer from time to time $1 here and there, prob every 3rd hand I won.
Then, a guy at the table goes to me, "yo bro can i talk to you for a minute?" I said sure and walked away. He was in his late 40s, had a stack of 50 infront of him and was sitting there, playing no hands, wearing sunglasses etc. Anyways, he goes, "I dont want to start any problems, but these dealers rely on their tips...they only make $3 an hour...and youre raking in pots left and right and I see you're only throwing $1 here and there..." I just said OK bc I also didnt want any problems to occur and walked back to my seat.
I understand dealer rely on their tips, but I dont think that guy was in the right to tell me how to tip and how not to tip. When you tip for every single hand you win that eventually hurts your bottom line and how much you make per hour, and I remember when doing coaching with BillANL he said the exact same thing.
How would you guys handle that situation? Thats the first time someone has ever said something to me and I have never witnessed someone else getting addressed in all of my 6 years playing live.
I'm not a fan of being lectured about how to spend my money, but as someone else noted, at least he did it away from the table.
What I really have a problem with is people tip-shaming someone at the table in front of everyone. Most people (except complete jackasses, and possibly not even them) don't deserve to be embarrassed like that.
In some cases, the person is new to casino poker and perhaps is not familiar with the details of customary tipping. Otherwise, the person may have other reasons.
In any case, I can appreciate someone sticking up for the dealers, but don't make a spectacle out of it.
Ultimately, tips are a luxury, not a birth right. If you don't like it, get a different job that doesn't rely on the generosity of strangers.