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Originally Posted by Jon_locke
The responses in this thread are mostly very very stupid. Except Rush's made perfect sense.
(1) If I told somebody I was an equity trader, or something equally stupid its far more likely they would be offended that I think they are an idiot and feel the need to lie to them than they would be scared off by being in a game with scary pros.
(2) If you are frequently being asked this question, then lol. Unless its somebody first time playing with you and they are just striking up conversation. When this is the case I just answer honestly and lots of times they find it fascinating and enjoy talking about it.
(3) I think most of the stupid responses come from people playing in games where people assume you cant make a living (or at least a good one) like the 1-2 live pros. I'd assume that if somebody sits down in a medium stakes game or bigger (5-10 or 40-80) they likely assume most people play for a living.
I mean jesus, you see a 25 year old kid that spends 50 hours a week in a casino that gambles for tens of thousands of dollars on a daily basis, wtf do you think he does for a living (unless he's awful)... and now you want to insult their intelligence by telling them you are an equity trader. People aren't stupid.
(4) i doubt it kills my action at all that people know what I do. lots o people don't care at all and will ask em to start games short or HU all the time, while others wont play short. I'm sure on average it all breaks even. What matters is if they say Jon lets start a heads up game but you have to have 2 drinks an hour and show me your hand every singe hand I'll say sounds fun lets play.
The fact that I call myself a poker player is largely irrelevant.
Your response makes a lot more sense for LHE players and only some sense for NL.
There's definitely a cultural difference, and NL players are obsessed with appearing to be awesome. Like maybe with 1-2 exceptions, I don't think I've heard an LHE player state his or her winrate. But NL players and pros especially are constantly bragging. Anyone who makes less than they do is an idiot and anyone who makes more is lying.
The LHE crowd is definitely older, and of course if you say "equity trader" someone's going to call you out because there's probably an equities trader at a midstakes LHE table. But at a NL table, especially small stakes? I think there's a nonzero O/U on the number of people who don't even know that's a thing.
If I show up at a 1/2 NL table, I'd guess that at least half the table assumes I'm terrible at poker because I'm not the L33T PR0Z CRU5HERZ they are and it's 8 people each making $20/hr plus me losing $360/hr.
And if I didn't have a high amount of confidence in my game, I'd definitely care about the near onslaught of negative comments directed at me by "pros."