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Originally Posted by ChameleoOoN
theres no day shift for what we do, has to be done at night so the trucks get loaded and get on the road. I'll just find another job (although I hate everything about the process and starting somewhere new) so im a little happier and just find as much time as possible to get poker time in. Theres a big score in my future, just not sure when it will happen.
There will be a better chance of a big score if you stack the life deck in your favor.
You gotta get above the water. $16/hr is survive money, you want thrive money. Acquire rare skills for whatever field you're in - learn how to operate machinery few others can, or how to program robots, or how to speak Polish so you can talk with the Polish drivers, or be the safety officer, or whatever it takes so that when the **** hits the fan and they're looking to close your location, your boss pulls you aside after work and says he's transferring you to another location, or when a new location opens up and they need a manager, you're first in line.
And if you do make more money or have a second stream coming in from poker, be disciplined about spending. If you make $40k in a year, live like you make $30k and - poof - you've got a 2/5 NL roll in a year. When you buy a house, don't borrow as much as the bank will lend you, and put down enough so that you can refinance even if the market goes south a little. It's the sum of all these little things that lead you in five years to either (a) have enough saved and the freedom to take a risk on The Big Shot (whatever that is for you), or (b) be in the same place you are with marginal COLAs and trying your best to stay afloat as expenses mount.
It's never easy to step out of your comfort zone. I left a pretty stable, very well-paying job for a smaller company, basically as a stepping stone to starting my own. Poker allowed me to fill some 529s so that my kids will be more or less insulated from any professional mistakes I will make. I will have the means and the freedom to take The Big Shot in probably a few years, and I fully admit it's scary. But that's my Big Shot, I may get a second one, but almost certainly not more than 2.
So I get it - everyone needs to take some long shots in life. But do it from a position of strength, not weakness.