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Originally Posted by Pot Odds RAC
We are having some work done in our house. The other day the rough framers came in to frame out a small wall. Literally only an hour or so of work. The framer brought his two sons to assist. Young guys perhaps 18-20. We have a 100 year old home and recently had a major renovation completed. As part of that big job, we replaced the old hot water heat with forced air heat and air conditioning (yay!). There were still two leftover radiators in the room on which they were working. We needed to have them moved so the rest of the work can be completed. The framer said he and his sons would be happy to move them for me. These are the antique cast iron radiators and must weigh 600+ pounds each. It took the four of us with a dolly to get them out of the room, down the stairs, and into my garage. If I'd tried it myself I'd have broken my back. As we moved them the younger guys were very careful of walls floors and such and managed to not leave a single mark, except on their hands when they got crushed.
They did a great job and I appreciated their hard work. Usually when I have contractors in the house, I'll run out and get pizza and soda for their lunch. I always get about 2X what they would likely eat and let them keep the leftovers. This time since the kids went beyond my expectations and were not here over lunch time - I thanked them, shook their hands and slipped them each a $20. This was the Friday before the Holiday and I wished them a safe & happy weekend. I could tell that the father was pleased with his boys earing a cash tip.
I would have given the contractor's sons more. Maybe $40 each.
If I hit a jackpot for $10,000 or more my share , I would be so happy that I would probably do something stupid like give the dealer $100. But that is as stupid as I get.
For those who would give more:
You hit a jackpot for $40,000. You give a $2,500 tip. After taxes and tip, you have $25,000. You develop plans on what part to spend and what part to invest. Or perhap the house ges paid off.
Your niece calls. A nice woman married to a nice guy but a bum. She needs $2,000. You politely refuse. She says $2500 for a dealer, a stranger, but $0 for me? You give in? If yes what happens when they call again in three months? What hapens when your wife's nephew calls with the same arguement?
After giving $2,500 to a dealer, how big a jerk are you if you do not give more than $2,500 in help freely to all members of your family who need it?
Do you have any friends from high school or grade school who you know could use a nice gift? Nothing for them but $2,500 for a dealer ?