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Originally Posted by LowSociety
When "I wasn't paying attention" (in any form) gets you money back in poker, we're all doomed.
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Originally Posted by Robert's Rules of Poker
Section 3, "Betting and Raising," Rule 13 includes
... if you are unaware that the pot has been raised, you may withdraw that money and reconsider your action, provided that no one else has acted after you. At pot-limit or no-limit betting, if there is a gross misunderstanding concerning the amount of the wager, see Section 14, Rule 8.
LowSociety, the rules just disagree with you. They clearly call out places where not paying attention should get you your money back. Whether we like it or not, those are the rules.
The general comment you're leaving seems to be "The rules are clear, why is everyone arguing about it?!" What is happening is, you're seeing dealers, floor people, and poker room managers answering how they would approach this floor call. And clearly there is no consensus on what the correct approach should be.
This should educate you as a player that expecting 100% consistent rulings in every room you play in is a fallacy. Each dealer, floor, and manager you deal with is a person. People make mistakes. People have opinions and their own approaches to logic. It's just how it is.
If there's a lesson you should take here it is that you should do everything you can to protect your own action, to be clear and straightforward, and to appreciate that even if you do do everything right there's always the chance that you'll get screwed anyway with an unjust ruling. However you're much less likely to be the victim of an injustice if you ensure you're being clear and straightforward in all that you do.