Hi all,
I've been wondering about this lately as I've been playing a lot more live poker and generally I've been able to have some OK sessions. I just try to maximize the profits in good spots and minimize the losses in tough ones. However, lately I've really hit a downswing and psychologically there is a lot going on right now.
I typically play $1/$2 NLHE and buy in for 150. I can usually come away with $100 or $200 profit (on a good night) from a 6 hour session. However, lately I've just been hitting some really bad spots. I'm really questioning whether I should continue playing because frankly if making $100 over 6 hours is the norm then it's pretty pointless to even sit down. I do enjoy playing poker, I suppose that goes without saying. Now that I'm starting to lose a bit of money it's had a few strange effects...
- I want to play more because I believe I have been 'getting my money in good' and the variance will change soon.
- I care LESS about the $ value of the money. I've started to think of it as having little importance in the grand scheme of things and the MONEY factor doesn't phase me. Could this be a positive turning point?
- I now expect to lose pots even when I have strong hands, I just assume the other player will catch their flush/straight/whatever on the turn or river.
- My bankroll is now down to 10 buy-ins and I'm wondering if it will go down to 0 and then what will I do?
A few pretty sick beats have resulted in this... Without going in to too much detail I'll put forth these examples:
- Pocket Kings. Flop K-6-7. Raised half-pot on the flop. Turn 8. Opponent all-in. Lost to 4-5.
- Pocket Aces. Flop 8-6-3. I had raised 15 BB pre-flop. Opponent raises 25bb on the flop. I shove all in (80bb total). Turn is a 9. River a brick. Opponent shows 8-9.
- Pocket Aces. Raise 4bb pre-flop. Six callers. Flop is 6-4-7. Opponent puts me all in (and one other). Turn is an 8. Opponent shows 7-5.
- Pocket Jacks. Opponent raises 6bb. I shoved all in (maybe this was stupid). He calls with AQ. Flop comes Q-x-x... I lose. Fair enough, that was a flip.
- AQ suited after I've lost a lot of my stack and feeling tilted. One player shoves all in ($80), another calls, I call. One of them has A-4, the other pocket Jacks. Pocket Jacks hold.
- AQ suited vs pocket 5's. I 3bet to go all in pre-flop with a shortstack of about 30bb. Two Aces on the flop. Opponent rivers a 5.
- Pocket Aces vs pocket 7's. All in. Opponent catches a 7 on the flop.
- AK vs 10-3. All in. Opponent catches a 3.
- A-9 vs K-5. All in. Opponent catches a 5.
- KK vs A-9. All in. Opponent catches an Ace.
- Pocket 6's. Flop is 4-5-7. I shove. Opponent shows 8-6. (A 3 came on the river).
- Pocket Jacks. Opponent raises 4bb pre-flop. I call. Flop is 5-5-8. Opponent raises 20bb, I shove all-in. He shows Q-5. Who raises 4bb pre-flop with Q-5?
I could go on for a long time and maybe these can just be written off as bad beats and variance and whatever, but it's all starting to add up now. My pocket pairs never hold up, my AK-AQ type hands lose to pocket pairs. It's just all going wrong.
I'm playing against some really awful players sometimes and they all just seem to catch their flushes on the river, or full house, or straight... It's demoralising. You give them bad odds to call, they call anyway - and get there. When you see someone sit down and their first hand is pocket T's and the board comes 6-6-T and two of their opponents go all in, they instantly triple up, and then proceed to have an absolute HEATER of a night (literally saw a guy go from $150 to $1700 over 5 hours playing 1/2 recently), it makes me wonder if I am doing it wrong or this is just part of the game I need to accept.
In one sense I feel like giving up but then there is another side of me that is even more eager to throw chips on the table. I'm starting to wonder if this is a dangerous feeling because I don't know what to do if my bankroll runs out. Do I just take more money out of my savings to fund this journey that may not have a happy ending?
Sorry for the rant. I love poker.