Thanks for the replies, everyone.
I tried trudging through the grind for a couple more months, before finally deciding to stop being stubborn and actually give myself a break last Friday. I didn't want to take a break, because I read all these other PGC threads of people putting in more hours and crushing a lot harder than I do, and I didn't want to fall even further behind the curve. Tilting things happen to every player, and trudging through it is part of the game, so I figured time off wasn't the answer. However, I finally picked up too many tilt straws after my last nightmare session pushed my monthly graph into the red, something snapped and I knew for sure that I was no longer capable of winning in my current mental state.
After four days of hiding inside my apartment and being angry at everything, I feel like some logic is finally returning to my brain. Reading through these responses, Blakkat and tmckendry nailed the gist of what's been going on. I wrote this sentence in the OP:
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This feeling is bleeding over into the rest of my life as well.
In reality, it has been the other way around. I've isolated myself in a poker bubble over the last couple years because I don't know how to handle my life off the felt. It worked for a little while, but not anymore.
I understand that it's better to view poker as a means to an end instead of a career. My problem is, I have no clue what that end is. I lost both of my parents between age 19-22, and have been grappling with an existential crisis ever since. The only reason I was born was for their amusement. Now that they're gone, and I have no desire to have children of my own, I feel like I've outlived my use, and that I'm drifting through time meaninglessly. The only thing that seems to make me tick anymore is the feeling of being dominant in a competitive arena.
Poker is definitely staying out of my life until I resolve this. I'm just clueless as to how to do so. Please don't suggest counseling or antidepressants or any of that fraudulent bull****. I've tried enough of it to know it doesn't work.