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Old 08-01-2017, 01:34 AM   #1
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Bad Beat Therapy

Hi Everyone:

In this months [I]Two Plus Two Magazine[\I] we're starting a new series of articles called "Bad Beat Therapy: Better Poker and Life through Psychoanalysis" by Robert Samuels who has a Ph.D. in Psychology from the University of Paris, France. I've read the whole series and there's a lot of interesting stuff covered. The first article is located here:

https://www.twoplustwo.com/magazine/...at-therapy.php

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Old 08-01-2017, 05:05 AM   #2
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Re: Bad Beat Therapy

Interesting article, thanks.

A couple of interesting points of note.

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A player once told me that his family offered him $25,000 if he stopped playing poker for a year, but he only lasted three months.
External rewards are known to undermine intrinsic motivation, and are not effective as a tool for improving performance in the long run. As such, offering money in a situation such as this was always likely to fail. I think poker players have to be careful never to be too focussed on either money or outcomes - In my view, you have to really enjoy the poker at a basic level to be successful, to want to improve and understand the game, and money should just be the tool you use to implement your strategy. If your motivation from the outset for playing poker is to become rich or make a living, I expect it is very unlikely you will be successful, and tend to be the kind of player who is always seeking help with the mental side.

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In his book Painless Poker, Tommy Angelo offers many important practices to reduce tilt; however, there is a dark side to his type of meditation
Meditation is another practice that is frequently used in sport psychology, and I agree with the assessment that for someone who has deeper issues, it will just be a sticking plaster.
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Old 08-01-2017, 11:53 AM   #3
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Re: Bad Beat Therapy

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A player once told me that his family offered him $25,000 if he stopped playing poker for a year, but he only lasted three months.
On a side note, I'd be rather hesitant myself on whether to take that deal. In the rapidly toughening online poker economy, even a 1-year break might turn out the end of a career, and $35K would be the minimum amount that would allow me to support myself lifetime with passive income in a cheap country (even despite giving up poker as my only source of active income), instead of having to find a real job as a sociopath. And I guess that $25K is nowhere near life-changing in that player's home country.
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Old 08-01-2017, 08:39 PM   #4
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On a side note, I'd be rather hesitant myself on whether to take that deal. In the rapidly toughening online poker economy, even a 1-year break might turn out the end of a career, and $35K would be the minimum amount that would allow me to support myself lifetime with passive income in a cheap country (even despite giving up poker as my only source of active income), instead of having to find a real job as a sociopath. And I guess that $25K is nowhere near life-changing in that player's home country.
Hi coon74:

Just speculation on my part. But if the player in question was doing well at poker, do you think his family would offer him significant money to quit playing?

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Old 08-02-2017, 08:43 AM   #5
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Re: Bad Beat Therapy

My first thought is that it was some kind've trust-fund baby costing their parents $100,000+/yr.
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Old 08-02-2017, 04:13 PM   #6
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My first thought is that it was some kind've trust-fund baby costing their parents $100,000+/yr.
This is indeed likely, considering that the story has been told by a psychologist, and that the majority of poker players fail to beat the rake.

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Just speculation on my part. But if the player in question was doing well at poker, do you think his family would offer him significant money to quit playing?
I don't exclude such a possibility. In fact, the article got me worried about my own relatives potentially offering a similar deal (just a few times less money) to me if they learned that I'm still 'gambling'.

The thing is that it's hard (would take hours or days of education) to prove to non-poker people that I'm +EV just enough to pay the bills, especially to those who don't know the probability theory well, in a country where online gambling is frowned upon. Laypeople tend to overestimate the role of luck in poker results.

Besides, some of them see poker play as a dishonest occupation (as if I were robbing problem gamblers) or at least as an activity that doesn't contribute much to the society. It would make sense for the relatives to spend some money on converting me into 'an honest (conformist) man' even despite such conversion being -EV in the monetary sense. (They don't fully realize how difficult it would be for me to secure a well-paying job, for mental reasons that were present way before I started playing poker.)

Poker addiction is not necessarily bad, as we've discussed, but my real-life environment might find it bad even despite the modest profit that mediocre poker play brings (which is still better than being depressed and doing nothing).

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Old 08-02-2017, 04:32 PM   #7
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Re: Bad Beat Therapy

That was a pretty good article and I'm looking forward to the rest of them. It's also of great value that the author plays the game because, in my very strong opinion, mental game advice from someone who hasn't tried to play winning poker is nearly worthless. They just don't know how badly poker plays with the mind.

OTOH, 'there's no poker demon', or however he put it, is just HIS opinion, the poor deluded fool.
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Old 08-12-2017, 03:09 PM   #8
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Re: Bad Beat Therapy

@coon74 have you read the why i don't tell people that i play poker thread? it is rock solid gold.

Think the guy in the article needs to meditate even more.

Nothing wrong with meditation it helps everyone.
Here is my bad beat therapy: Before i start playing i accept the fact that there are bad beats and that they are essential to the poker economy.

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Old 08-12-2017, 06:04 PM   #9
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@coon74 have you read the why i don't tell people that i play poker thread? it is rock solid gold.

Think the guy in the article needs to meditate even more.

Nothing wrong with meditation it helps everyone.
Here is my bad beat therapy: Before i start playing i accept the fact that there are bad beats and that they are essential to the poker economy.

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Hi Arcangelo:

I think the point on meditation was that while meditation might make you feel better it does little to improve your poker game. For example, if there are errors in your basic strategy, those errors will still be there after you're done meditating.

As for your bad beat therapy, that should work fine as long as your mind understands that this is how the large short term luck factor in poker works and that the bad beats are expected over time. However, many players have much trouble in this area because their minds are unable to process the information presented to them in the form of bad beats, and in these cases I don't think your advice will work (for them). But once they improve their understanding of all things poker, then your advice becomes the way to go. (See my book Real Poker Psychology for more discussion.)

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Old 08-13-2017, 08:02 PM   #10
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Re: Bad Beat Therapy

This is why I usually don't discourage players from talking about strategy at the table; it usually reveals a hole in their game. I may participate in discussion to encourage talk, but I refrain from providing anything meaningful.

If meditation allows you to feel unemotional in considering what just happened, it may help you prevent errors such as recency bias in assessing whether you need to make strategic adjustments. Samuels mentions the need to learn from one's emotions. Since this is the first in a series of articles, hopefully he will write about specific examples of lessons learned from emotions within the context of poker.
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