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Originally Posted by callipygian
This seems like an easy way to never get invited again.
I think it depends on how overtly Jon goes about it.
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If you're at least honest about your intentions, you'll probably get temp banned but thanked for your honesty and maybe invited in the future. If you say you're going to try but don't, you'll get perma banned and basically never invited again no matter how much you beg.
If the host thinks Jon is a "wallflower," there's an off chance the request has nothing to do with the way Jon plays the game, but rather is a clumsy attempt by the host to get Jon to improve his social skills. And in that case, "I'll try" does not seem offensive.
But I think the game host is probably asking Jon to play less than his best poker game, and in that case, it seems to me the game host has made a completely inappropriate request of Jon.
How does one reply to such a (completely inappropriate) request from a poker game host who invites people (or not) to his game?
I don't think Jon should comply with the request.
But I don't think it's in Jon's best interests to be confrontational, or for Jon to refuse to comply.
My solution is to say "I'll try," and then do what seems right.
I'm always going to be stuck on doing what seems right. That's a guiding principle. However, I'm also a pragmatist. I don't believe being vocally forthright about doing what seems right is a pragmatic solution to Jon's problem.
I believe Jon's best course of action is to be a bit evasive with this poker game host. And who can say, after all, whether Jon "tried" or not? If the host doesn't think Jon tried hard enough, you may be correct and the host may choose to not invite Jon back. That's a price we all pay when we play too well in a game where the host's objective is to find weak players.
Just my opinion.
Buzz