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Nicole:
Let's both stop freaking out. I'm sorry I lost contact with you but I've really had no money. I do admit I'm a compulsive liar, but I aint a theif. I was going to drop 900 of Merge money in your lap if you could have taken it, well before I did the audit. I actually did the audit later.
And I still love you to death, I"m sorry about the bickering. This is the 5th day I"ve been awake. I didn't sleep for 3 days.
You do have money coming to you but it's not that easy to figure out. You have to do a player audit because of the re-buys, and I wasn't in a condition to do it. I figured out that the total of the poker play is 985 not 900, some of it is makeup, but forget about MU ok. Let's work it out this way.
I truly thought for the last three years that you always had 500 in money in your account, I had no idea you had passed me more money than I passed you. I know now that I invented that scenario. I can see why you were pissed. But that doesn't make me a thief. And I reacted terribly.
I give you all of the action for all STT during the length of the stake, and MTTs up to 2/11. and everything for STTs after that, and we split it and I pay you all of it immediately or have a payment plan.
We are both getting crazy, I'm in a crazy place in my life, and it's been crazy since BF. I didn't even have a phone for awhile.
Let's just agree that that's fair. I know you don't want to take any more money from me that's not yours than I want to take of yours.
That way we do split whatever but I don't think it's as high as you think because you missed 2/24. I actually thought you made slightly more than what you thought but it's actually less. You played low variance and I think you might have broken close to even.
I honestly thought that it was all makeup tho when I looked at the numbers because I didn't have the transfer logs. I know I invented that scenario.
Let's not worry at all about MU but get the number right because like I said, it's complicated. You always have to have a closeout. I just now looked again at the numbers and I"m even wrong about 985 because like SA said, I played almost all re-buys. That puts the number at less than what you thought. I know you didn't actually lose money on the stake and I really and truly do owe you money after looking at the missing logs, but it's less than what you thought you made. You may have actually broken even. So I owe you between 420 and 985. It's somewhere in the middle. I had no intention of stealing from you because I was totally wrong about how much money you actually passed me, for whatever reason. My story on that is true.
I do owe you something and I just want to get it right so lets do the numbers and forget about everything else. Retroactively, you own all of my action for all STTs during the stake and all MTT action up to 2/11.
Once we figure out exactly what the number is, then we can do the repayment plan, and I will get you paid off. I know it was psychological that I kept the money but it's been killing my conscience and still is. Also, what people say about me might be true, and you have to help me change. You are my friend.
I will start paying you off. I'm sorry about these weird mood swings but I'm going bat **** insane and have been for 3 years.
Let's just do an audit on that. I'm really freaked out right now, because I really thought I only owed you a little bit of money and MU and I thought you would be excited and happy when I called you and you called me a thief and it really caught me off guard. I'm not a thief. It's possible I'm a deadbeat but when I have money, I pay.
I honestly and truly love you to death. I think I was going through such a trying time that I just shut down in my mind things I couldn't deal with. I should have contacted you well before. I'm sorry about that. But all this time I honestly thought I passed you more money than you passed me. We could have worked it out.
I can go play poker now if I want but I won't do that until all debts are settled with you. I can see why you think i'm a theif because I didn't contact you and whetever but that really isn't the case. I thought you still had investment in me as MU, but F the MU and lets find out exactly what I owe you.
By the way, I know I really need counseling bad. I've been so depressed for so long that anything i have to deal with that's stressful just freaks me out. I'm partially making you the villain when I owed you money for so long. I think you are a fine mod.
I don't want you de-modded. I've calmed down now. I know I'm the one in the wrong now. My emotions are playing tricks on me so I'm going from one extreme to another, but having your debt cleared and your friendship back is priority for me. I will even pay interest on the money that I've held for so long so it might be closer to the 900 you are owed. But lets just get it right and deal with it.
Please get a community member, maybe SA to check these numbers. I used an average when I computed the RBs before and I think I spent like 500 on it. It's possible that your profit on the stake isn't as high as you thought
Once we figure that out, I will pay out in full ok?
Jeff
Jeff,
I don't know where you're getting your magic numbers from. I dispute your timeline in that, to the best of my recollection, I never dropped all MTT action.
I have no numbers or figures to go over with you. I have the transaction logs, which I have posted in full, and my own memory that the stake roll was officially $750 (after originally being $500, then bumped to $750 around the time of the last transfer) + $200 to cover the "loan". I see no complications in that. According to your own statements, time and time again, you had the full amount of the stake roll + loan in your PS account at the time of BF. Ergo that entire amount is what is owed. You haven't posted a single email or PM or other form of proof that even tells me where you are getting the numbers you keep bringing up (is it $285? $900? $985? I have no idea where you got any of these numbers, although at least the later two are close to my own recollection).
If you wish to have arbitration that's fine, but otherwise I consider the amount of the debt established. I have neither the time nor the inclination to get into some sort of fight again about the terms of the stake, considering neither one of us has any proof of the actual deal and in deference to the fact that both of our memories may be distorted due to the passage of time. If some brave soul wants to try to figure everything out they are welcome to try, and I'll answer any questions with that to help, but I can only go off my own memory, and I've already been completely honest with what I recall and what I don't.
You keep saying it's complicated. That's funny, because I don't remember it being at all complicated when we settled up weekly. After we determined the MU method, which yes, I freely admit I don't recall off hand (but I know damn well that I never knowingly agreed to allow withdrawals when the stake was still in MU), we never disagreed about the numbers. Not once, that I recall. Somehow the numbers got more and more complicated over the years. Yet oddly, I still remember the exact same figure even almost three years later - $950. The only one who can't seem to figure things out is you.
I am not freaking out in the slightest. If you want people, including me, to stop thinking of you as a thief, then make a payment plan, one you can afford within your life/budget, and start paying me. I don't know how it could be more simple than that.
All I keep thinking about is the phrase from Game of Thrones - words are wind. I literally have no idea what of the things you've said is fact or fiction anymore. So stop talking with your mouth and starting talking with your actions. You say you aren't a thief. Fine. Then pay me back my money.
I am still open to arbitration if you believe that the $950 figure is incorrect, and will abide by whatever decision a neutral party decrees.
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