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Originally Posted by Original Position
My point is that shaming behavior is much more prevalent than you seem to be assuming here. For instance, every time you use the word "SJW," you use shame to motivate people to not post about certain topics or in a particular way. Every time you talk about how Wookie is biased and bad as a mod, you use shame (and other emotions) to motivate people to post/moderate in the way you like. It is easy for you to see how your evangelical aunt uses shame because you probably look down on evangelicalism (a lower status religion in general) and so aren't threatened by its attempts to control your norms (notice how you appeal to "most people" having the same reaction you have - which, since evangelicals are the largest religious group of its sort in the US, is likely false). But our own uses of shame are typically unconscious and automatic and so we don't notice them until they are pointed out.
So what is it about the shaming behavior in particular of these progressives/liberals that you disapprove of? Is it the targets of the shaming? The way this shaming behavior is manifested?
First, I'm not threatened by religious attempts to control my norms
anymore, which is why I can now laugh at it instead of allow it to shame me. Second, I didn't mean to tar all evangelical Christians as I did my aunt, or look down on that denomination any more than Christianity at large. I was talking only about those who get all overly judgmental, too sure of their place in heaven and yours in hell if you don't obey with the glimmer in their eye of love spreading gods grace through daggers of shame, like she can get. Most evangelicals Christians are very nice, imo, I know and love several, thanks. Presbyterians and Catholics too. We've all learned to ignore my crazy aunt's chain mails.
So goes with people of any stripe who act that way. It doesn't take religion to turn someone into a prick and a zealot, I think it runs in the human dna. My calling out of Wookie et al is not to shame them, it's to point out I won't be shamed by their constant claims of bigotry, because I know they're FOS. They are doing exactly what my crazy aunt is doing, getting too wrapped up in an orthoxy and often trying to shame everyone else into submission. Won't work here. I need convincing through reasonable argument.
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Sorry, I wasn't clear. I don't mean to deny that they are more on the left side of the spectrum. I was denying that they are crazy. What's I'm trying to pin you down on is what exactly you mean by SJW. If you just mean "mean liberal/progressive" then, for instance, there is no point trying to understand their ideology as distinct from liberalism/progressive thought more generally.
But you seem to have a specific set of ideas that you think is characteristic of this group as well. I would like to see what these ideas are. My own sense is that most of the people usually referred to as SJWs are actually pretty standard liberal/progressives. Sometimes they are more leftist or less liberal, but I don't hear from them really anything that suggests they think they favor state control of society in the way you see in leftist totalitarian dictatorships.
Sorry, I sometimes use SJW as an invective to describe the crazies, not all people who fight for social justice. It's not my favorite term. Anyway I go into much more detail in Shameys thread, but it's not a blankets description of social justice advocates, many of whom I have great respect. If you don't like crazy, then twisted, outrageous, zealot, all work in different spots. Crazy is a loose term. Think of my aunt. I often use similar if not worse language to describe Trump and the alt-right trolls.