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Originally Posted by jetfeul
Ran well at MCC 2/5 this morning, +600ish for 3 hours of play. Great work if you can get it.
Weird semi-ethical dilemma, or maybe I'm being a total softie for even thinking about it, you tell me....
Guy to my right has obviously been on a massive steamer, has 5K+ in chips when I sit down. Rumor has it (from gregarious veteran-type on my left) that it was possibly 6K+ a few hours before. I ask guy-on-right at one point, and he tells me he's been playing for about 20 hours, and I read this as true.
Two hours in it becomes clear to me that in his fatigued state he has lost the ability to fold good hands against the likelihood of excellent hands. This pays off for several people, including me. Normally I would feel pretty good about this, but there's a side of me that feels bad that a guy who put together such an awesome run and then pissed 40-50% of it away.
I think to myself, "if he's still here when I check out, I'll give him friendly advice to at least get up and take a walk or something." He ends of checking out just before me anyway.
What's the etiquette for dealing with someone whose game you respect but who's donking like a drunkfish? Honor amongst thieves? Every man for himself? What do you think?
You have no obligation to get the guy away from the table just because he's put himself in the position of poor decision making. What if he was on tilt? What if he had a few drinks? What if a bee flies into the room and stings his nut sack while he's trying to get a read on the river? A person's mental edge is one of the biggest edges in this game, and capitalizing is part of the game. It is absolutely no different than betting big when you notice your opponent doesn't understand pot odds.
If it was someone who for some reason I had an interest in them keeping their money (if they were a close friend, or my grandma, or whatever) I'd pull them aside, but you're most certainly not under any moral obligation to help anyone keep his money.
If a guy is a fish at poker, crowds gather and look forward to the payout. If this guy is really 20 hours in and losing money like crazy, it doesn't matter how good his poker is: He's a mental game fish, his money is going to someone else, and all you have control over is whether it's going to you or not.
Off topic but noting that I would change my position if the player was so new at the game they didn't have full knowledge of the rules. I wouldn't misrepresent the game rules or otherwise cheat just because my opponent is too new/drunk/stupid to notice if I did.
If the parameters of the game are set and everyone is following the rules, your moral obligation is set. If someone is playing poorly within that framework, that is on them, no matter what the reason is.
(also, I think most of us have, at one time or another, been on the sucker end of the "guess who isn't playing their A game" war. It happens.)