so I just thought I'd share something that occurred at the table yesterday that had me tilting a bit, but in a "sad commentary on the state of gender roles in America" kind of way.
There is a 70-year old lady that plays at my casino who is a terribad poker player, but very nice. She is one of those women who have been taken care of or taken advantage of all her life. You know, the type who attracts abusers because she is codependent and it's too ingrained in her that she isn't allowed to be strong or stand up for herself. She is the type who is actually intelligent, but constantly plays dumb so men will rush to her rescue.
Anyway, she's at the table doing her "i'm a dumb woman" routine and going on and on about how she's confused by her new DVD player and she doesn't know how to hook it up to her directv box and TV. "But it has this in and out things and i don't know which to put where", etc.
So I speak up and tell her "the wire from the directv box goes into the "in" jacks, and the wire to the TV goes in the "out" jacks. She pretends to not understand and keeps asking, over and over. I keep repeating it, over and over. She's asking the table. I'm answering.
Finally, one of the old man coffees at the table says, "why don't you ask Chuck (another OMC sitting in the 8 seat), he's an engineer!"
Lady immediately turns to Chuck, asks him the same question, then says "oh, maybe you can draw me a picture" and hands him a notepad out of her purse. Chuck proceeds to draw her a diagram of the exact same thing I had said over and over.
Meanwhile, i'm sitting there tilting, having a running convo with myself. The dealer is cracking up. "I'm an engineer, you know. I have TWO engineering degrees. One's in electrical engineering! I can tell you how the signal goes from the box to your TV. Is it because I'm a girl? You think I can't be right? I can't possibly know how to hook up a DVD player? I set up our entire sound system in my house. I fixed our speakers. Is it? because I'm a girl? Helloooo?"
No one heard me but the dealer.
*sigh*