Even though I still don't like fooling around with boys.
But, have you tried it. You might be surprised... pleasantly surprised.
But seriously, no I don't consider it to be strictly a matter of choice.
Knowing how much persecution they will face, why would many males choose to be gay, when if it was a choice, they would just choose straight and not have to deal with any persecution. Females too for that matter.
I hate to be arrogant, but sometimes I wonder if it is just me being more in tune and free with myself than most people.
I remember a statistic I heard once, that almost everyone is bi to some extent, most people just live in denial.
The ancient Greeks had very different views on this than we do today.
It's possible everyone has some hankering for their same sex, but most just live in denial.
Hard to prove, or to be sure of, but no, I wouldn't just say it's a matter of choice.
Why would anyone, choose to be part of a group that is probably, the most persecuted and hated upon in modern day America, and possibly the world?