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I had no idea gay men were getting tramp stamps as well.
Well, just like all people, gay/bisexual men come in all different shades and types.
From the sounds of it though, I have to ask.
@RMC are you sure you don't have any sort of trans leaning desires? I understand that a gay man can desire to cross dress, and that doesn't mean he wants to transition to a women, but now you are talking about waxing your legs/arms and getting manicures/pedicures as well.
Perhaps you just want to be a particularly effeminate gay man, and that's great if that's what you want.
I don't ask because I am judging you, and I certainly don't want to put labels on you.
I'm just curious, and also asking you so you can potentially ask yourself.
I know it's hard enough dealing with it right now, and should you come out and everything, and of course it's usually best to go one step at a time.
But just a question you might want to think about asking yourself at some point.
It's a transition I have seen a number of times before, in many of my exes who are T-girls, and other T-girls I have had flings with and what not. In many cases when they were 16-19 they were pretty much just effeminate gay boys, but then bit by bit they started to cross dress, and then wear makeup and do their nails, and wax their legs and all that. Then finally they start taking pills so their hair on their head will grow out longer like a girl, and their arm/body hair won't be as prominent and (if they want it and can afford it,) they get breast implants and dress fully as a girl pretty much all the time.
As I said, I'm not trying to make assumptions about the path you are going down, only that you are showing interest in starting down a path that I have seen lead to full on M2F TRANSition many times in the past.
Doesn't mean that's where you will end up, just putting it out there so you can consider it and ask yourself the question.