Oh hi, im just going to say that I have been here before
and leave it at that.
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Originally Posted by mrmossy84
Lol so I was watching a buddy of mine at WSOP during his day 3 and this other online kid is watching too, don't even know how it gets brought up but he goes "man look at that freak playing in day 2 over there" and points to you in your pink hoodie. He goes "man now that Somerville came out all these freaks feel comfortable to play I would be scared sitting across the table with them staring at me and ****"
I fake laughed at him but then was depressed for a few days after that I didn't defend you/myself.
Yeah, I agree this person is not your friend, and if he is you shouldn't be friends with him. I mean that is such severe homophobia that illustrates he is a bigoted moron, and will not accept you when you tell him. It doesn't matter how far you guys go back or whatever, if he really feels that way then i have no ****ing idea why you would want to even hangout with him. If you wana find out if hes a real friend come out, if not you just have to deal with this bs and feel like a pussy for not standing up for basic rights.
Edit, just read that he wasnt an actual friend. Even still to say nothing to a statement that extreme is not okay imo, it is exactly the same as some guy going of about black people or any race, just say something.
Recently I have been coming out to more people in my life, rocking flamboyant clothes around, kissing ( a new! ) bf in public in fronts of lot of people etc. 3 months ago id NEVER see myself being like this, i was so insecure about everything, but holy **** just being yourself and not caring is so wonderful. Last night me n my bf saw magic mike and cuddled in the front row in front of everyone, it was wonderful. Again id never see myself doing something like that. And yeah I starting being more "vocal" and public on facebook about gay things, and just being myself to a bunch of people who don't know im gay and it is just fun to be myself and not care, even on the internets. It really all is in our heads and the monsters in the closets simply are not there. Seriously people don't give a **** that you are gay, except for a tiny minority who are just pathetic people that aren't worth the time of day. I have been called ****** in public like 3 times, and just laughed it of, but normally people don't look twice and if they do they normally think you are cute
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With all that being said I haven't told my family, but I am trying to get there, its a slow process for me. I feel like they are picking up on some signs tho. I just want to bring my bf home ( live with parents) so badly, but ugh. I came out to my brothers gf though, so that is the first step, im getting there.
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Originally Posted by Protential
Sir I respect your style, mine is very similar
And livra, exactly what dominic said. Im not a fan of that style :P, but it looks good on some people, however holy **** i want those socks.
Magic mike was ****ing amazing btw. And the swimmers are gorgeous jesus.