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Originally Posted by hotjenny314
As for taking advantage of their perceptions, often when I sit down at a table, some dude will start explaining a hand to me. If I think it is +EV I will act a bit ditzy (blonde hair ftw), and unable to get whatever excruciatingly obvious point he is trying to make. This usually sparks a lot of dudes trying to explain it to me, and at this point I can easily deduce the skill level of most of the players at the table. I have also reinforced their opinion that I am likely to be a literal player, as well as having made the table chatty which could benefit me even further down the road.
Excellent! I do the same and I'm just an old fat lady now, but old guys and young, they all like to hold forth with their expertise and have a woman nod and smile. And look a bit lost. Or be surprised when she raises and they all fold - and they look smug at my disappointment as I muck my junk face down.
I've been in male-dominated professions all my life and if they want to give me a way to have an advantage based on my gender, well, it's their game and who am I to not play? They have the power (still) they make the rules, and one of them said famously that the purpose of the game was to make money. Not gain respect, not be one of the guys (yuck) but make money.
If you do that consistently you are a fine poker player.
Of course, that's not everyone's way and if a woman isn't comfortable with that style, if she wants the one of the boys thing, then more power to her. Some women at the table look like old maid schoolmarms. Killers, they are. Some flash their wares, some simper, some are boldly aggressive.
Whatever works is good, whatever wins is what you "should," as long as we are taking the money.