Guess I'll expand on my headphones comment-- what I meant was that having headphones gives you options (and by headphones I mean obvious ones, not inconspicuous earbuds). When I wear them at the tables they are usually on very low or even off; it gives dudes another barrier to get through in discouraging them to blither bad beat stories and I tend to wear them when someone at the table is really annoying me.
In general though, I like being social at the tables because that is just my natural personality. Generally, people are interesting to me, and talking can help clue you in as to their play. Also, male or female, I think there is an edge to be gained from your table mates liking you. But if talking distracts you from playing your best, then the edge of being liked can obv be negated by your being distracted (and then you can put on your headphones
).
From my experience, I don't think that a wedding ring alters male attention, but you are less likely to have a chatty table in higher stakes games.
Last edited by hotjenny314; 10-05-2011 at 02:17 AM.