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Originally Posted by DaSharkHungry
I am wishing you all the best! I am 27 years old now, when I turned 21 I went to Vegas for what was suppose to be a long weekend trip. I live completely across the country on the east coast. I had worked very hard for the money I had saved up and Vegas got a hold of me QUICK!
When all my friends flew back home, I decided I didn't care about my ticket back I was staying. I hated my job and had nothing to go home to, why not? Bad decision at the time. I ended up getting hooked to house games etc. When I lost money I would always try to chase it back with a higher bet. I ended up losing everything, had nowhere to stay and literally without a dime to my name.
I could of easily picked up the phone and called for help back home. But I put myself in that position and due to pride and ego I didn't. I rode the bus countless nights just to get out of the cold to catch some sleep when sleeping outside wasn't a possibility, slept in the homeless shelter for months. I was literally at rock bottom with an addiction.
Fast forward years down the road I found poker. I am a consistent winner at $1-$2NL live and back in those days if I had a dollar in my pocket I would of threw it on the roulette wheel, or a hand of blackjack, I knew I had an addiction but it was that feeling of knowing everything was on the line and it was make it or break it that brought me that adrenaline rush.
Now losing everything and knowing what that feeling is like, I guess I can consider myself one of the lucky ones. I never got help, I just remember that feeling of sleeping outside, without a penny to my name and I swore to myself I would never get to that point EVER again.
To say I don't play blackjack or house games would be a straight lie. But I have learned from losing it all and having nothing the gamble just isn't worth it. You aren't going to beat the house, the odds are always stacked against you so if you MUST play...Do it the smart way, it's for entertainment purposes but it could end up wrecking your life if you let it.
Please feel free to PM me if you ever need someone or advice because trust me, I of all people know what it's like to of been a degenerate at one point. Do I know all to well..
Wow, thanks for your post. I can relate to a lot of what you said (not the homeless bit fortunately) and at the height of my addiction I would steal almost anything I could get my hands on just to have another go at roulette or whatever. Luckily, I'm more of a binge gambler now which is probably just as dangerous but sees me able to live the majority of my days gamble free and poker definitely suppresses the urge. I do know however how dangerous it is when I take that first bet or first spin of the roulette wheel as it's normally a good few days before I'm able to get it out of my system, generally when broke.
My results yesterday gave me a lot of confidence that I still have a big edge in the games and that there is still good money to be made. I definitely want to transition into a full time MTT pro someday but I just don't have the roll at the moment to be playing what I want. I will definitely PM you sometime, good luck with everything.