Parents are there to help you while growing up, they dont determine your life after that atleast in the very most western circumstances. Obviously their wealth and education determines a lot of times the possibilities of the child but for OP I dont neccessarily see wealth as a problem. Everyones had difficulties, thats part of life. Saying you dont want to exist and blame your parents for putting you here is just very bad attitude and a bit rude to someone whose just showing support to OP for his plans. Maybe your drunk or depressed, it can happen and its allright.

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If this thread is open for constructive criticism and some observations I fire away mine; to me this whole situation and why OP ended there has two possibilities.

1: He just got carried away dating these "club girls" only and now he got so far that he sees his opportunities with family making only existent with one or another of these girls. They became his closest friends and now it would be difficult to get to know normal girls. This is a problem for him that makes headache and he trys to overcome it by this extreme solution making a baby with one of them.


2. It really is so that he feels like sharing the same values and gets along so much more better with them than some normal ones and doesnt even want that kind of traditional relationship and values way higher being free and able to have sex and being able to have the kid aswell.

I wish OP good luck!

hes helping build the wall

Not going to go through and requote everyone as it will get super repetitive, but thanks everyone for words of encouragement etc


Not going to 'defend' myself because again, you guys don't really know me and it's not worth the time as my hourly is much better spent doing something else, but will offer this up really quickly before I grind

About 300 days a year, Salma is down in SLP with her family running her salon, building her house, and making plans for her other land. She lives with her 13 year old son, her dog and her 4 fish. Her business is really close to her house, her father lives really close, and all her siblings live close. She is just a chick running a business and spending lots of time with her family.

She is a 'normal' girl. If I told you guys everything I've posted about her and said I met her in a restaurant while she was on vacation this summer (since again, I do meet tons of 'normal' people Every.Single.Summer when this town is packed with people from all over Mexico), the story would check out.

Big difference between girls like Salma and Alisha, who works at the club every single week and solely relies on the club as a source of income, rather as a source to build her life so that she can then quit working at the club and have her businesses and live happily ever after.

And with that its 59 mins after the hour and i have to get ready to sit hte lobby. Wanted to keep going on this post but that will have to do



Gla on the grind

I have a cpl other things I want to address/quickly post about, but will have to wait for after the grind; I suck at grinding and posting

Played like 16-17 hours yesterday and gonna be another long day today

i really hope this thread will still be updated in 2020

In kelvis ideal world= ejaculations are monitored and children are burdens.

The fact you want MORE government intervention in peoples personal lives is sickening

you clearly are incapable of forming cogent arguments.

I would strongly advise you consult a mental health professional if this is how you really feel.

GL on the grind jdawg

Died at this hahaha gold

Anwyays damn jdawg, I thought you bounced this thread. Honestly didn't read all the latest but I'd probs say same thing regardless. It's your life, you're your own man, do wtv tf you want!

Keep grinding, hope your health improves and you shake that illness!

Dunno if I'm finding it funny or sad how much jealousy there is itt. The haters wouldn't even care about OP's personal life decisions if his poker graphs where flipped around the x-coordinate.

To those trolls:
If you were genuinely interested to prevent bad circumstances for children to grow up (lol @ thinking this wil be the case here based on 5 minute reading a 2+2 thread), then here, have a much more useful method:
Go to a 3rd world country with high birth rates and educate ppl to use condoms rather than getting 6 children per woman that grow up in circumstances that are far worse than any that can potentially be created by ppl having the luck to be able to post at 2+2.

amen

I am in love with 2+2 community. Most people judge without knowing all the details. Even though i had a bad childhood and i am against most people having children just to feed their ego, i think Jdawg will be a great father

He has many life experiences to teach a child how to THINK about real life where most parents fail miserably. He is wealthy and he can provide a quality life to the child and the mother. I think Joshua will become a great parent and it seems like a good decision

whataboutism. Why give a nickle in the save the children jar when you can go to Africa and build houses.

lol comparison, maybe cause u didn't want to spent the nickle on a house in africa? While the haters claim to want to protect the unborn child.
And all they really want is to hate someone, cause he achieves what they would like to in poker.

Well said.

Was just thinking about how dignified Jdawg's response has been to some of the stuff posted - shows a great degree of tilit-control, self-awareness and discipline. I'd have exploded or shut down the thread with some of the comments - really callous.

Guys who just blindly support succesfull people and try to be as nice as possible for them are generally complete losers. Part of that is trying to mute people who actually have some criticism by calling them "haters". Thats the reason why keeping a blog is alot of times not worth it, you either get "love" (ass kissing) from losers or "hate" (jealosy) from trolls.

Either way in my own experience haters usually had atleast few good points. Supporters will show you "love" no matter what you gonna do. Its good to have such people in real life, they are very neccessary. Having such in internet whilst making real life decissions is just completely worthless and even dangerous as it makes it easy for you to do whatever and then get sugar for your ego to write about it and get "love" here even the real people who support you in real life would be criticising you and giving neccessary advice. This is just what generally happens and why so many stars go completely insane after they get succesfull. They ignore family and good old friends and take everything that comes easy (love from fans no matter what they do). Im no means sayign OP is like that, Im just telling that idiots are the reason why many great people make bad decissions.

Dont get me wrong Im not saying making baby with the lady is bad decission, maybe it turns great, maybe it turns awfull. I dont know OP and dont even have opinion whether he should make it or not. Even for OP theres sooo many factors to consider I rather leave it for him than start speculating. I was at first more interested why he ended there and got an asnwear of how the girl is great and different than other club girls, thats fair enough.

Peace Im out!

Gotem!!!

It s an uncommon point of view, never tought about the subject in this way. I m inclined to agree with you; laws in regards to regulation of conception might exist taking into account a lot of things obviously.

1. You may not have had a choice to be brought into this world but you do have a choice to leave this world

2. If he wants to have a kid it's nobody's business but his and his girls so stfu

No hate jdawg but paying for her kids schooling is the same as giving her money, we all want the best for you just be careful and trust your instincts.

Jdawg have you not considered that the kids amercian citizenship will lead to massive bullying in school? I mean may as well give him some Trump clothing and MAGA hats. And they won't hurl him over the border because the wall will be up by then.

Yeah u should prob stop thinking in extremes only, there are various other ppl in between. Just for example fellow poker players in this case. There is a difference between blind support and respect for good work.

Jdawg ur rich dawg foreva like Kanye just don't OD on the mexican strippers bro. It's not what it seems .. Trust me.. We've all been there.. Little asian ones need love too.. anyways the only time I gave any significant amount of money away was to my momma but I can't imagine how much more money you have than me so take that with a grain of salt my man. Keep up the good work

So ur only allowed to be nice to people in real life and you should always be a prick online?

Ok m8.

FWIW most 'positive' comments in here aren't just saying that his ideas and plans are the best thing on the planet, they are mainly saying that he should do whatever the **** he wants and supporting that...

Why does anyone need people who BLINDLY support you? Theres aswell huge difference between being a brick and being someone who thinks about actually what he is saying and and brings something constructive or new. Whats the difference in saying that someones plans are the best thing on the planet and saying that he can do whatever he wants and its supported, either way it ends up being the same; he doesnt get any constructive feedback by these kind of comments.

For people who never learned to think on their own its worthless to get into this too much but alot of times in life we have two ways to go, the easy way, and the hard way. Our ego always finds perfect reasons to go the easy way, our innerself knows whats the right way but its difficult to admit it to ourself and if theres no one criticising it gets even more difficult to know what to do and just trust our ego. I see this kind of blog as great opportunity to get some guidance from people who dont know you personally and who are smart thinking objective individuals ready to give the right criticism.

Never said its bad thing to say "hey I like your content" or what ever nice aswell. I wouldnt write here if I wouldnt like his blog, I find it interesting, who wouldnt? And of course I apprechiate OP as a great pokerplayer but does it neccessarily make him a shark in life that deserves blind support?