We All Start Somewhere
Well I have decided to write a post to reflect on poker and my challenge up to this point. Let me first start by saying that I created this thread with two main intentions. The first of my intentions was primarily to track my progress on this journey. Secondly, the majority of the people in my life do not know that I play poker and my family does not support it whatsoever. Honestly, I have attempted to explain it to them in the past and they just were not having it. With that said, I partly created this thread to in hopes of showing the non-supporters one day as a means of explanation.
As of late, there have been moments where I find myself thinking about my journey so far. Perhaps it is because Summer is swiftly approaching and the pressure to apply for a Summer job is looming over me. Last Summer, I worked multiple full-time jobs that consisted of manual labour and paid minimum wage. Long story short, I quit them both because I did not have an urgency to make money and strongly disliked those atmospheres. At the time, I would wake up at roughly 7am and go to work all day then come home and shower and grind HUSNGs at the 2.25s and 5s. Normally, I do not focus much on hourly rates, because I always try and focus solely on the poker itself. Although, back then, I would probably make 5$/h and that simply was not a justifiable reason to pursue poker rather than maintain employment. Eventually, Autumn came and I went back to university full-time and thus, created this thread to accompany my educational journey.
Now, looking at the bigger picture, since last update, I am roughly 8% of the way towards this goal and it has been roughly six months. Therefore, in terms of my ambitious goal, that is not very impressive. Although, comparable to what I would have made working a part-time job alongside my full-time schooling, it is nothing to gasp at. That is what I try to keep in mind.
Work Hard In Silence
In light of not being supported (except by very few) on my poker journey, I decided to take the approach of working hard in silence and letting the results speak for me. The more sessions that I played, the more that I realized that poker is one long grind. Therefore, constantly trying to update my thread and focus on the daily or weekly results was not conducive to mental strength. Instead, I decided on to focus on the important aspects that would lead to success.
• Putting in solid volume and adapting to each situation as it arose
• Making correct +EV plays, rather than focusing on results
• Maintaining a level head and refraining from tilt
As I continued to grind, I realized that it was difficult for me to discuss poker without complaining and whining. Therefore, I decided to stop talking about it unless it was with specific poker friends. People who do not understand poker do not care if you make the correct play, they only understand results. Frankly, many people who do play poker actually only understand results as well. Although, that is not how I have chosen to approach the game.
Roll With The Punches
If I am being transparent and honest, I decided to write this post because poker has not been "fair" to me. I have been on a downswing and the grind has not been going my way. Although, this "unfairness" has led me to truly think about some aspects of this journey. For one thing, I knew what I was getting into when I started playing poker. Secondly, just because my EV line says I should make x, does not mean I am entitled to x. Thirdly, someone pointed out to me that regardless of my EV line, my actual results are very adequate and still lucrative enough to justify grinding. It is important to realize these concepts whether the grind is going my way or not.
Yesterday, I had my worst day playing poker in terms of results. It did not seem to affect my mood very much, but in the same vein, it was very thought provoking.
1. People in poker are constantly saying that poker is dead, there is no more money to be made and everyone should move on. To put it simply, that is just untrue. Poker is still more lucrative than many employments.
2. The concept of putting in work should be seen as a positive, rather than a negative. A person works towards their goal because it is good and desirable, not because it is bad and detrimental.
3. Quebec legislation is trying to ISP ban poker sites, and there is not much I can do about it. Therefore, my future in poker feels as though it is somewhat up in the air.
The approach that I have taken is that I need to adapt or die. Rather than worrying about what I cannot control, I just need to roll with the punches and take every day for what it is. If online poker is removed from my life tomorrow, I will be fine. There will be other interests in life that I can be passionate about.
Perhaps that is why I decided to start being healthier by eating cleaner and going to the gym consistently. Having an outlet in my life where I can put in hard work and be guaranteed "fair" results is very encouraging. For the most part, I always thought that would be the case in university. Although, I have found that if someone is not studying a field that has absolute answers, it is all up in the air. Therefore, two of the biggest priorities in my life are actually very uncertain in nature.
Finally, a major reason that my family does not agree with poker is because they do not see how it adds value to society. Quite frankly, I agree with them in that sense. Additionally, I face criticism that in the future, it will be difficult to explain gaps in my resume to potential employers. You know what, maybe they are right. Although, for the moment I rationalize it to myself as working smarter, not harder. Honestly, the alternative is working at some type of minimum wage job helping someone else achieve their dreams, rather than pursuing my own. I have already branched out and am trying to invest my money and learn about the financial world. Personally, poker is a means to an end for me, not a profession. So for now, all that I can do is take each day as it comes and roll with the punches.
Thanks for reading,
Elliott