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Originally Posted by AChipler
GL man, will follow.
What about regular activities like going out, doing sports and stuff? I can imagine how your situation feels like, especially the part about thinking of financial pressure. Maybe you can give a try on meditation.
Having ideas or thinking about your situation is not always neccessarily bad for you, but doing it like every day in the morning while lying in bed can cause this less-energy feeling that surrounds you day in, day out. Don't underestimate the intelligence of your body.
If i were you, i would stay on NL10 for at least until the end of may and then re-evaluate. This gives you enough time to play and build your bankroll, pay bills, doing sports, handle your no-fap challenge, maybe go on some dates etc.
Thx for the long post and help.
I go out from time to time with my friends, like once a week in average, but I only go out when it´s cheap, like cine sneak or drink a coffee, maybe a bar and get one drink.
I don´t do much sports for the last couple of months, because I´m not in the mood to focus on it. But started doing pullups, pushups and planks in my living room 1-3 times a day. Back at 15 pullups, 35 pushups and 15sec sideplanks without a break. Maybe I will restart going 3 times to gym in May.
When I feel bad or something I watch a serie Hawaii Five-O, listen to music or read on this
www.knowledgeformen.com website.
I guess you are right with the financial pressure and the waking up issue, but it looks like, the only thing I can do is going to bed earlier and solve my money issues. I would really like to start with meditation, but that would be too many new things to handle and lead to a complete failure.
Like you said, my plan was and will be playing NL10 until I solved my financial issues, so I can start rebuilding and moving up with proper bankroll management. I thought this would be the beginning of May, but it looks like I need some more days to realize this.
Dating wouldn´t be something good at the moment, because my mind would drift away all the time, too many things to think about and it would set me under pressure, because I´m really bad in dating.
How should I send a positiv impression to someone, when I have no money, feel bad with my body or my lifesitutation in general? Guess it is impossible to attract someone with my current mindset and such a bad perception of myself.
As I think, so far I earn enough money every month to pay my bills, save a part and moving back up to NL25/50 all other things will follow.