Thanks for the replies.
Yah this hand I played a little too, I don't even know the word. Here was my thoguht process...
After V1 raised I seriously put him on QQ, KK,AA, AQs+, AK
I actually paused a second longer than I wanted to pre-flop because my reflex was to 3 bet immediately but against this guy, he is NOT folding at best I am a coin flip with him...so I elected to set mine.
Then I hit that set I was mining for...and my brain said "hmm...maybe this Asian guy will bet (he was somewhat scrappy) and the V1 calls or raises and I get it in here or at least get a big pot on and GII on the turn. The Asian guy DID NOT bet. V1 pops the $30 and I want V2 in. I also DO NOT want to scare V1 out as he did play somewhat timid. I called with intention of getting this going on the turn...
the Ace hits...I think "ok I assume he bets again and I give him the bad news. THERE WAS MY MISTAKE. I actually did not think this guy would c-bet without a made hand but did not consider this. As a result, I could have taken AQ and AK out of his range on the flop after he c-bet it. I could have limitied him to AA, KK, QQ. So he really could either have hit his set here or he is probably not going to bet. He checks and I cuss myself out in my mmind because I realize I should not have got fancy on this hand. The Q hits..my mind is a bit frazzled because I made some assumptions that the V's would behave a certain way and they did not and my plan was foiled. At this point I think I mentally let down and was just thinking, I am likely good...I have a set. Once I bet the $45 aqnd he pushed it was just a matter of "ugh...I played this one bad. i am getting 2.8 to 1 though...maybe I made a mistake somehwere along here and read this V wrong, I guess I have to call..."
I called and he shows
In hindsight, and after studying your replies, I actually like pushing the flop here. Or at least donking a fat sum on the flop. He tanks and probably gets it in or at least calls.
CURIOUS HYPOTHETICAL:
if I played it like that...lets say i bet $50 on flop and he calls. And the Ace hits on the turn...do we bet again? Or is slow play prudent here? Because if we bet here and has QQ or KK he is folding for sure and probably going home. But if he does have AK we get value...thoughts?