Just wanted to take a sec to say thanks to everyone who shares their mind on this site. You guys are helping me get a lot better. I'm especially getting a lot better at hand-reading at game speed, and there were two spots yesterday where a year ago I know I would have lost at least two more bets than I did.
Hand one I raise pre with K

J

and five of us see the flop of Q

T

9

. I raise a passive old man's donk into the field, and he 3!. He hardly ever 3!, and I've never seen him do it on a draw, of course I still capped. So when he leads into my cap when T

turns, I think for a second about his range. I realize there is almost no way he 3! the flop without at least a set, so I am tied w/ him at absolute best. (If he somehow had Q9 and got counterfeited, he would have checked turn.) So I just call and then call when he bets a blank river. He tables 99 and I am so busy being happy with my play I forget I lost the hand.
Hand two I raise pre with A

J

and six of us see a flop of J

8

2

. A tightish, passivish guy donks, I raise, SB calls, TP guy 3!, I call, SB calls. TP is another guy who rarely 3! so I put him on 2p at minimum. Turn 6

, SB checks, TP bets, I call, SB calls. River J

. SB checks and this time TP guy checks. I took a second, thought about it, and realized there was no way this guy was playing 82 pre, so given flop 3! I figure he flopped either 22, 88, or J8, of which I beat exactly nothing, and he thinks I have a J and will fire as I've been aggressive. I check behind and he rolls over 88.
A year ago I would have raised both turns without thinking about it. Maybe I was still wrong, idk, but I was happy with how I thought it through.
That is all. Your forum is helping. Thanks.