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enjoying your storys wamy, keep em coming! Only experience i have with pool hustling is watching the hustler. Like that film? seems like newmans biggest problem was his ego, had to prove he was the best, show how others how to play pool etc. What were your biggest mental struggles as a pool hustler?
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Yeah obv a great film. He has the key conflict of wanting to not be a con man and just show his skill, but deep down he knows that this will come at the ulitmate price of forcing him to never get a high level game again. Classic bit of contradictory self destruction.
My key struggles young (11-13) were ego and temperament. I remember at 13 I was playing a league doubles match against two pros when this came to a crux point in my career. We had put a sizeable bet down when they offered us 4 to 1 on the match and my partner and I were on the hill when they left me with two shots on the black (In England we often play two shots rather than ball in hand) to win the match. All game long they had been winding me up about being a 'chess player', as I had been playing slowly and tactically to slow them down and give us a chance.
I turn around and arrogantly say 'Should have played more chess I guess' to them as they sit there looking nervous. Instead of taking the correct shot, which was to knock the black over a pocket and use the second to go for it, I let my ego get in the way and played a harder double/bank, missed it by an inch and left it safe. We lost the game and match.
In retrospect this was quite a blessing, as getting taught so young the importance of mental stability has been a huge part of my game. Over the years having a stable temperament has probably saved me hundreds of thousands of pounds so now I actually remember this quite fondly (at the time I was so ashamed of this match I basically stayed in bed for two days - but it obviously worked, as I have pretty much never made this class of mistake again no matter how tilting the opponent is).
Have some other good mental ones from later on I will try and go over in future posts.
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Seems like it could be a dangerous lifestyle to live, you ever get into situations where you thought you could get seriously hurt?
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Lot of the guys I play with were/are drug dealers who have large sums of money but nothing much to spend it on except the cash industries. Many of these guys I have seen with guns and other weapons, and have witnessed numerous savage beatings etc. No murders as yet.
I've been in a few fights but nothing that serious. I would always rather get robbed than resist - and as I've said before, most of the skill of playing pool for a living is in tempering these emotions in people or spotting situations where they will kick off. After a while you just get a feel for it tbh - like you can smell violence in the air or something. A point that has kept me out of numerous bar room fights/brawls as well.
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Did your age impact anything in the early years? I'd imagine most pro pool players/hustlers would be quite a bit older than 12!
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I was very tall very young (like 6ft by 12), so most people didn't know my age. Being young has it's advantages (learning very quickly, not making mistakes twice, being resilient), but some big downsides (being impressionable, naive, impulsive, and often easy to take advantage of). Might sound harsh but I was pretty battle hardened by 13 - something which I would say was a blessing and a curse in near equal measure.