Join Date: Jun 2013
Posts: 104
I know exactly what you mean by the common rejections to play a match on BGRoom, and it is frustrating. One possible reason is the player who rejected your offer to join their table has their hands full with another game - or games - in progress. I think it's BS that players can have multiple games going on as it results in rude delays for the opposing players. Another thing is your rating may be too high for their comfort.
I find it best to set your own table and match options up and wait for an opponent to join - I usually go with a 3-point match. I find that I don't have to wait more than a few minutes - if that - for some game action. The level of skill I have encountered there is actually quite impressive. There also aren't as many stallers or mean-spiritedness I have encountered elsewhere.
I am going to check out Bill's suggestion, GridGammon - I haven't tried that one yet.