Is it wrong to teach kids that hell is real?
How much behaviour does a person's religiosity explain after all? I don't personally know, as the literature on this doesn't particularly interest me, but I'd be willing to bet that it's not a very significant variable in predictive modelling.
The major variables one really ought to know, in terms of personality-belief-behaviour effects, are the Big Five personality dimensions. Together, they explain a significant amount of variation in behaviour.
Locus of control, self-efficacy and need for achievement are also very influential variables in determining behaviour and life outcomes.
I think you are missing the point again. Yes "ingroup vs outgroup" dynamics are powerful and measured under a whole range of different ways to define groups. I am sure you can show that people wearing the same colour shirts will share more or whatever else. But the DEGREE of said sharing can change. In particular, it seems people share MORE within their ingroups when they have higher amounts of certain beliefs than others. For instance, christians might always share more with distant christians than they would with distant muslims. But christians who particularly emphasize a punitive god might share even more with distant christians.
Color me not convinced, I smell tailored presentation of results.
Even if it were true that religion was an important factor in building large complex societies, it is no longer needed now. It served its purpose. Let's move on.
I think most people (especially rational atheists) would agree that threatening young children with eternal torture if they don't do this, or that, is paramount to abuse.
Would you be okay if the babysitter you hired said to your kid, "I personally know the Jabberwok! He's a monster that eats people alive! If you don't behave or displease me in any way, I will tell him to come eat you!"
Would you be okay if the babysitter you hired said to your kid, "I personally know the Jabberwok! He's a monster that eats people alive! If you don't behave or displease me in any way, I will tell him to come eat you!"
Indeed, people have considered that the emergence of religion is related to natural group-selection mechanisms.
Easier to understand when you combine this with the fact that in a tough medieval/pre-medieval world people yearned for a sense of 'hope': religion's primary product.
The latter point is not shown in the study (that Christians who view their God as more punitive would share more with distant co-religious adherents), as there is no data given or control carried out for religious adherence, only geographic adherence. Given that certain religions put more stock on punishment than others that seems like a strange oversight and I can't help but think that this is data they would or should have pursued. We already know from other studies that Christians and Muslims tend to view co-religious believers more favorably than we see in other religions for example, so that leaves the question of why the researchers did not test for such an obvious potential false positive.
Color me not convinced, I smell tailored presentation of results.
Color me not convinced, I smell tailored presentation of results.
Indeed, people have considered that the emergence of religion is related to natural group-selection mechanisms.
Then I think there is an implication, that in relation to the brain which also evolved in relation to such complexity (and so with a complexity of its own), might actually require this kind of metaphorical teaching method, especially in infancy.
To say "We don't need this, lets do away with it" in this sense then, is actually quite religious and not supported by Dawkins as stable evolution. Then again Dawkins did say something about outgrowing our paradigms by using ingenuity, but I think we're generally being too hasty.
Indeed, people have considered that the emergence of religion is related to natural group-selection mechanisms.
Easier to understand when you combine this with the fact that in a tough medieval/pre-medieval world people yearned for a sense of 'hope': religion's primary product.
Right, and this is precisely where your OP fails. If you want to talk about this promising theory of cultural evolution, that is an interesting topic to explore. If you want to talk about whether teaching kids today about hell is child abuse and/or "morally wrong" , that is a somewhat less interesting topic but OK sure. What falls apart is this "BS filter" where one needs to change their view on whether teaching hell is child abuse/morally wrong based on this theory of cultural evolution.
Firstly, whether this is or is not important in the historical development of society simply doesn't affect whether it is morally wrong/child abuse today. Could it be theorized that the history of slavery in the US had various benefits such as the building of a strong economy or whatever that led to the success of today's world? Possibly. But I don't see that this should mean people who claim that slavery is abusive or moral wrong better update their views.
Second, I'm mostly just assuming a consequentialist moral theory here. An entirely satisfactory response to my argument would be to say that it is always wrong to cause mental trauma and anguish to children, even if doing so leads to an overall social benefit (that was the point of my bringing up that LeGuin story).
Perhaps you would then argue that it IS still relevant today, that today views of hell are a net benefit. That seems harder to hold. Today, we have a huge range of complex mechanisms that encourage various rule following from a complex legal system, contract enforcement, strong social convention (ex tipping), various social enforcement mechanisms like peer pressure and fear of embarassment, strong sense of what is "right and wrong", prevalence of disney et al secular morality tales since childhood, unexploitable business models, new tech*, etc etc etc. Does fear of omnipotent pushing god's also play a role to some degree? Probably. Western Christians donating to African Christians certainly maps fairly well from this study. But at best this sits in as one of many, many, mechanisms that encourage rule following in our complex society today. Maybe we wouldn't have developed to where we are not, but certainly it is hard to imagine it being necessary now.
I'm not sure where you are disagreeing with me though. You say it probably does contribute to prosocial behavior. Insofar as you think that is a good thing, you'll have to count that as a positive good that comes out of punitive religion.
As far as being a "BS filter", well sure if we accept for the sake of argument that indeed teaching hell has all these magical properties and if we didn't then modern civilization would collapse then okay under those assumptions utilitarian minded people might agree that it is a net benefit - by assumption - over the obvious and direct harm being caused to children today. But you didn't initially say you were creating a BS filter where one ASSUMES the world about this theory, you said you had a "strong argument" that teaching children about hell is "morally good"; you are nowhere close to this thus far.
Maybe I wasn't clear before, so let me assure you now, this is my view: The argument against the claim that teaching kids that hell is real being discussed here is dependent on assuming the correctness of the theory being discussed. I think there is some mild evidence for that theory, enough so that I'd be interested in discussing some of the moral implications of it being correct. But I don't think the evidence is very strong as of yet, and it is certainly still rational to reject it or favor some other hypothesis.
Christians, sure. But the point is can you find people who DON"T think hell is true teaching it to their children because of the various prosociality benefits? You seem to think people like Dawkins et all should be persuaded by this theory, that they fail some "BS filter" if they haven't bought into your framing. So can you actually find people who are persuaded by the evidence alone here and thus teach their children about hell despite not believing in it? Sure arguments exist in a vacuum and whatever, but it does seem worth pointing out from the standpoint of setting expectations that afaik nobody has actually been persauded their view of the morality of teaching hell is wrong because of a historical theory of cultural development. And it would seem rather strange to me if they had.
Second, I've not advocated for the view that people should teach their children that hell is real, only against the view that they shouldn't, or that it is wrong to do so.
I think that this has real implications for our practical lives in at least two ways. I don't believe in hell, but I know many people who do. Should I try to influence them not to do so, or let them do as they wish? For instance, I try to influence my evangelical friends to be more gay-friendly. I don't generally do this by first trying to deconvert them from being a Christian, but rather by advocating for ways within their religious tradition to be more accepting of gays. Should I do the same for the belief in hell or not?
This is a very practical question for me as that is exactly what I have done, arguing for Christian versions of universalism or annihilation over the traditional eternal torment viewpoint.
Second, just as a social matter, I tend to favor more moderate liberal versions of Christianity because of my dislike of traditional views on hell and the image of God it presents. But maybe this is an unwarranted prejudice, and more traditional versions are more effective religions.
That "punitive religion" was somehow "necessary" for civilization is a strenuous assumption at best.
Remember that these punitive religions that are tested for did not exist at the dawn of civilization, if anything we know that in many of the most ancient civilizations plurality of religion was the norm (for example Babylon), so it seems peculiar that "fair treatment of people of the same faith" should be the pillar of those societies. It is administration, bureaucracy and written legal systems that stands as the cornerstone of large early civilizations.
You are taking willingness to offer someone of your own religion "a fair game" way too long if you look at is as evidence that "punitive gods" should somehow be necessary for civilization to arise. Consider this: I can experimentally show the exact same effect for people who wear the same shirt.
Remember that these punitive religions that are tested for did not exist at the dawn of civilization, if anything we know that in many of the most ancient civilizations plurality of religion was the norm (for example Babylon), so it seems peculiar that "fair treatment of people of the same faith" should be the pillar of those societies. It is administration, bureaucracy and written legal systems that stands as the cornerstone of large early civilizations.
You are taking willingness to offer someone of your own religion "a fair game" way too long if you look at is as evidence that "punitive gods" should somehow be necessary for civilization to arise. Consider this: I can experimentally show the exact same effect for people who wear the same shirt.
I'm interested to see a show of hands of those who would assent to the claim "teaching kids that hell is real is child abuse."
Would you be okay if the babysitter you hired said to your kid, "I personally know the Jabberwok! He's a monster that eats people alive! If you don't behave or displease me in any way, I will tell him to come eat you!"
I am confused. Are you reading a different article? Here is a link to the methodology. Each participant is surveyed on how moralistic, punishing, and knowledgeable their god is. The main variable was between adherents to religions with more moralistic, punishing, and knowledgeable gods, versus adherents to religions with a less moralistic, punishing, and knowledgeable god.
This is best explained by analogy: Consider if you in the US want to test how party allegiance correlates to belief in punitive Gods. You want to test your hypothesis that belief in punitive Gods leads voters to a specific party. Can you think of reasons why it would be wise to consider which religion the participants belong to?
Two points. First, no one here is claiming that punitive religion was somehow necessary for civilization. Second, no one is assuming a uniform religious culture. In fact, the study was intentionally done in pluralistic societies with multiple religions including both the moralistic, punitive kinds and the less moralistic tribal spirits or gods.
"These results build on previous findings and have important implications for understanding the evolution of the wide-ranging cooperation found in large-scale societies. Moreover, when people are more inclined to behave impartially towards others, they are more likely to share beliefs and behaviours that foster the development of larger-scale cooperative institutions, trade, markets and alliances with strangers. This helps to partly explain two phenomena: the evolution of large and complex human societies and the religious features of societies with greater social complexity that are heavily populated by such gods"
For the record: I don't think religion is very important to the development of large societies, but I would agree that it often has a large influence on such development. The distinction between these two is important to understand.
Nor do I think the pro-social effect it fosters between the co-religious is anything you couldn't foster with both more reasonable and more productive beliefs.
I'm interested to see a show of hands of those who would assent to the claim "teaching kids that hell is real is child abuse."
Through the ages 5-9 I thought deeply about heaven and hell, God and Satan. It gave me a very warped and depressing perspective of the world and our existence in it. During my nightly prayers I would obsess over god helping all the kids I knew who were starving and had little, while I had a full stomach and a nice warm bed to sleep in. I also had a series of deaths in my family and would worry about whether they were sent to heaven or hell. I worried about my own eternal future. Obviously, I didn't want to be sent to hell, but even the thought of eternal heaven scared (or depressed?) me. I couldn't wrap my head around infinity (still can't), but no matter how good existence in heaven was, the thought of being trapped there for eternity and having to be good, was very disconcerting. I couldn't imagine what it was.
Now I might have had psychological issues to begin lol. But these are very disturbing (and unnecessary) thoughts to weigh on a young child's mind. So I contend that it can turn into a form of child abuse even if it's taught with the best of intentions.
Without my permission? No.
Remember the OP's question asked about right and wrong and we're supposed to be looking at this with the child's best welfare in mind. Not whether they have stupid or bad parents.
It's not really an analogous situation, especially as there's a LOT of other theological thought that goes into the concept of hell that doesn't exist in your Jabberwok hypothetical.
I was thinking tantamount and somehow typed paramount. Embarrassing error. Of course I meant is tantamount.
I'll raise my hand. Psychological abuse can be just as bad, if not sometimes worse, than physical abuse. Maybe it's hard to understand if you don't experience it yourself. I'm sure many people get through it okay. But religious teachings left me with emotional scars. I never claimed to be that intelligent, but I was always a deep thinker about things even as a little kid.
Through the ages 5-9 I thought deeply about heaven and hell, God and Satan. It gave me a very warped and depressing perspective of the world and our existence in it. During my nightly prayers I would obsess over god helping all the kids I knew who were starving and had little, while I had a full stomach and a nice warm bed to sleep in. I also had a series of deaths in my family and would worry about whether they were sent to heaven or hell. I worried about my own eternal future. Obviously, I didn't want to be sent to hell, but even the thought of eternal heaven scared (or depressed?) me. I couldn't wrap my head around infinity (still can't), but no matter how good existence in heaven was, the thought of being trapped there for eternity and having to be good, was very disconcerting. I couldn't imagine what it was.
Now I might have had psychological issues to begin lol. But these are very disturbing (and unnecessary) thoughts to weigh on a young child's mind. So I contend that it can turn into a form of child abuse even if it's taught with the best of intentions.
What does your permission have to do with it? It is either an acceptable threat to give a child, or it's not. Do you think it's okay for teachers to smack kids with rulers and/or make them wear dunce caps in school for those who's parents give their consent, but it's not okay for those parents who do not?
Remember the OP's question asked about right and wrong and we're supposed to be looking at this with the child's best welfare in mind. Not whether they have stupid or bad parents.
If you're trying to somehow say that hell is less scary to a thinking child, than a fictional monster, I disagree. They are both gruesome threats based on fiction and both very scary to a child who is not old enough to know any better.
I'll raise my hand. Psychological abuse can be just as bad, if not sometimes worse, than physical abuse. Maybe it's hard to understand if you don't experience it yourself. I'm sure many people get through it okay. But religious teachings left me with emotional scars. I never claimed to be that intelligent, but I was always a deep thinker about things even as a little kid.
Through the ages 5-9 I thought deeply about heaven and hell, God and Satan. It gave me a very warped and depressing perspective of the world and our existence in it. During my nightly prayers I would obsess over god helping all the kids I knew who were starving and had little, while I had a full stomach and a nice warm bed to sleep in. I also had a series of deaths in my family and would worry about whether they were sent to heaven or hell. I worried about my own eternal future. Obviously, I didn't want to be sent to hell, but even the thought of eternal heaven scared (or depressed?) me. I couldn't wrap my head around infinity (still can't), but no matter how good existence in heaven was, the thought of being trapped there for eternity and having to be good, was very disconcerting. I couldn't imagine what it was.
Now I might have had psychological issues to begin lol. But these are very disturbing (and unnecessary) thoughts to weigh on a young child's mind. So I contend that it can turn into a form of child abuse even if it's taught with the best of intentions.
What does your permission have to do with it? It is either an acceptable threat to give a child, or it's not. Do you think it's okay for teachers to smack kids with rulers and/or make them wear dunce caps in school for those who's parents give their consent, but it's not okay for those parents who do not?
Remember the OP's question asked about right and wrong and we're supposed to be looking at this with the child's best welfare in mind. Not whether they have stupid or bad parents.
If you're trying to somehow say that hell is less scary to a thinking child, than a fictional monster, I disagree. They are both gruesome threats based on fiction and both very scary to a child who is not old enough to know any better.
I'd compare it to scaring your child with a monster in the closet. If you don't behave, he'll come out and night and punish you. I realize of course there is a difference: We can presume the parents who teach punitive religion believes in the punitive religion, thus they are doing what they think is best for their child. That obviously plays into the ethical judgment of their act. Consequentalists might chose to ignore it, but most others would look at deception (or lack thereof) as relevant towards judging the act.
I'm skipping your personal experience not to discount its role in your life, but to point to the larger question being asked.
So I contend that it can turn into a form of child abuse even if it's taught with the best of intentions.
What does your permission have to do with it? It is either an acceptable threat to give a child, or it's not.
If you're trying to somehow say that hell is less scary to a thinking child, than a fictional monster, I disagree. They are both gruesome threats based on fiction and both very scary to a child who is not old enough to know any better.
I'd compare it to scaring your child with a monster in the closet. If you don't behave, he'll come out and night and punish you. I realize of course there is a difference: We can presume the parents who teach punitive religion believes in the punitive religion, thus they are doing what they think is best for their child. That obviously plays into the ethical judgment of their act. Consequentalists might chose to ignore it, but most others would look at deception (or lack thereof) as relevant towards judging the act.
I want to press into this a little further. Do you believe you were abused as a child?
I know I was abused as a child. Do I feel being taught religion was one of the abuses that ****ed me up? I'd have to say yes.
I also generally believe threats by fiction is wrong anyway. I never told my kids they better be good because Santa won't bring him toys, etc. I think that's lazy parenting. I preferred teaching them the why and what the real benefit and/or consequences of a particular behavior can have.
The first is pretty much claimed in the article your OP is about. To quote:
"These results build on previous findings and have important implications for understanding the evolution of the wide-ranging cooperation found in large-scale societies. Moreover, when people are more inclined to behave impartially towards others, they are more likely to share beliefs and behaviours that foster the development of larger-scale cooperative institutions, trade, markets and alliances with strangers. This helps to partly explain two phenomena: the evolution of large and complex human societies and the religious features of societies with greater social complexity that are heavily populated by such gods"
You are reading both the article and me as making a stronger claim that we actually are.
Second, you praised large complex societies early in the tread. I assumed you did this because you found the study relevant to that phenomena. The study speaks of increasing pro-social behavior in adherents of the same religion, and thus can't really explain much of the success of the early religiously pluralistic civilizations.
The article claims we can bridge this explanatory gap by looking at cultural evolutionary factors, and focuses on one of these--the increasing prominence of religions with punitive, moralistic, and knowledgeable gods, as providing advantages to cultural groups by causing adherents to these religions to behave in more prosocial ways even to strangers if they are co-religionists. All the study does is empirically test the claim that these kinds of religions actually do cause their adherents to behave in more pro-social ways to strangers.
Thus, the mere fact of pluralism doesn't contradict this theory. For instance, compare two identical societies that both have two dominant religions. In society A both religions are non-punitive, in society B one of the religions is punitive. This thesis would predict that society B would have more pro-social behavior than society A because the members of the punitive religion would act more pro-socially towards other distant members of that religion.
There are tons of non-abuses that lead to people being "****ed up" people (keeping to your self description). I'm trying to parse a little bit between the two and see how strongly you've drawn the line here.
No. This black and white thinking is far too clumsy to be the start of a meaningful conversation.
Some parenting decisions are made on the basis of the individual temperaments of the children. Others are made on the basis of parenting philosophy and practical realities. I think if you step back, you'll agree to take that back as a useful way to ground yourself.
But generalizing your personal experience to the experience of "a thinking child" is going to run into problems. I was a "thinking child." I was more disturbed and scared by other things even though I accepted the existence of hell.
Methods that are possible to have a negative impact on a child, are abuse. Period. And should be avoided.
See above.
I'm not going to look it up right now (but will if I have to). I'm pretty sure there have been multiple studies which show that it's possible to rear children of all temperaments just as well without the use of certain physical punishments (such as spanking, threats of violence, etc.). There's no reason to think this is not the case for threats of physical harm. So I dismiss your premise above.
Btw- I also think most practices are based on parenting philosophy rather than child temperament.
Consider the shifts in parenting philosophy from first child to second child. First child parents are sometimes pretty paranoid about cleanliness. But by the time the second child rolls around, they've relaxed that mentality a bit.
This isn't impressive. Many children who are beaten by their parents are nevertheless more scared of being placed with foster parents than staying with their abusive parents.
Random collection of links pertaining to parenting. I think discussion of these in a more general context would be worthy of its own thread, and probably not in RGT. I'm putting them here as a reference point for the current discussion.
http://www.parentingscience.com/spanking-children.html
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...em-time-outs-0
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/daniel...b_6006332.html
http://humansciences.okstate.edu/fac...aff/Larzelere/
http://www.parentingscience.com/spanking-children.html
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...em-time-outs-0
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/daniel...b_6006332.html
http://humansciences.okstate.edu/fac...aff/Larzelere/
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