Originally Posted by festeringZit
Ahh, so Anne Heche is bisexual, but she states clearly that she
never had a gay thought until she met Ellen.
Interesting how that works.
I can address this more directly later if necessary, but I think you are distracting from the real point. Did Anne choose to feel attracted to Ellen, or did that just happen and what she chose was to pursue that? When the relationship was over, did she choose to feel attracted exclusively to males, it did she choose to just not enter into a relationship with a female?
Did you choose to be attracted to females, or to blondes or redheads, or a certain personality, or did that just happen, and your choice was only in who you pursued? How do you not get how this really works?