If you don't mind
d2_e4, I'd like to offer my two pennies:
Aaron can be frustrating, but I don't mind saying he had an influence on my posting here and elsewhere. The problem comes when you get bogged down in the tone, rather than the content. But if you are sloppy, incomplete or flat out wrong with your thoughts (or parts of them), then if someone should point the problems out (especially if you missed them yourself), isn't that going to benefit you in the long run?
Not to speak for Aaron, but when I first asked him about his tone with people in the past (you aren't the first / won't be the last), he has said that he comes from the position of pointing out errors, at least to begin with.
That's not to say he is always right, and there can be occasions where threads becoming unreadable after he and his opponent chase pedantic, irrelevant side issues down rabbit holes for another hundred posts! To be fair, that does take two.
Anyway, it's a bit weird to talk so much about one poster but I just wanted to give you another way of looking at interacting with 'difficult' posters. This is all assuming he's not some kind of AI bot. I wonder whether he'd pass the Turing Test?