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What is a 'self' as you're using the term?
It can get quite vague, and change meaning depending on who is talking , but in general, I am talking about the subject, the doer, the thinker. We say "my body", and I am talking about the assumed owner of the body.The separate entity, who is choosing what thoughts to think, who makes decisions about what to have for lunch. The self can also have qualities or characteristics. eg we talk about someone being very generous, or being lazy, or homosexual, or bright, or sporty. We hang labels onto the self, to identify what it does, what its good at , what its bad at. It can also mean the watcher, the person who is looking out of your eyes, and so on.
but generally, its about a controller, a chooser, a doer, a thinker.
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How do you know that we don't possess them?
First, can I point out how this sort of question highlights exactly where we can look. You are asking whether we possess a self, so what you are saying, is that there is a self, who possesses the self? I realise that its a language thing, but I am guessing its partly because of language that the belief in a separate self is so entrenched, and almost invisible, in a way.
I know that no such thing exists, because when you look at how things actually happen, you see that there is no such thing anywhere. There is no thinker of thoughts, there is no decision maker. Decisions and thoughts just happen.
There is no owner of the body, the body does everything on automatic. There is no self controlling the muscles, moving the body about. Its obvious for some functions (digestion, working of internal organs etc) but for some reason we assign other bodily functions to the self.
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Why do we feel that we do?
I can only guess that its useful.
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What are the implications, if any, of the self's non-existence?
That all beliefs are false. That thoughts are false, they may point to reality, but never correctly represent or mirror reality. That a huge amount of energy goes into supporting and protecting the beliefs about self and others, wasted energy. That all concepts are false, they dont exist, they are just agreed upon thoughts. That you werent born, and so you arent going to stop existing when you die, because you didnt exist in the first place. That blaming others for their actions is as pointless as blaming a tornado. That such things as success and failure dont exist, ownership doesnt exist,
and so on.