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This is basically what I was getting at with "convenient". Is there a reason you don't think your friends actually believed? If you knew them before their conversions, did you suspect they were false converts at the time?
On the contrary, I do think they believed at the time. Their faith was genuine, just not that deep. Keeping with your metaphor, they had not handed over the deed.
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It seems almost universal--at least among Christian groups--that if someone stops believing, they were "never really a Christian to begin with." Fred was raised in the church his whole life, and raised his three children to love the Lord. Mary came from a non-believing, drug-addicted background and God made amazing changes in her life. Susan was always catching the Holy Ghost and rolling down the aisles and speaking in tongues. Joe was a loved and respected missionary for 30 years. When each stops believing in God, the explanation is immediate and identical--they must have been a false convert.
Two things. For starters, faith is not a "yes" or "no" prospect, it's a spectrum. It's difficult to conclude anything from simply saying that someone was a Christian and now they are not - "this must mean X". Which leads to my next point, that looking at a hypothetical example doesn't help us. We would need to examine how much faith a person had, that is, what they believed and why they believed. If they no longer believe, what are the reasons they no longer have the faith they used to. The specifics of this are crucial, where simply looking at a case in general without examining the details won't get us anywhere.
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I'd certainly agree that attitude is important, but it doesn't account for those who we have no reason to suspect have a bad attitude, or those who we have every reason to think have a wonderful attitude. Many ex-believers (myself included) don't come from a background of non-belief. God was a reality from the time they could walk, and when they got older they studied and Made The Truth Their Own. It seems that religion has a built-in defense mechanism, so when someone leaves the flock we only have a few options to explain why they did--false convert, improper attitude (check this box if they wanted to be their own god), or direct supernatural action (led astray by The Adversary).
I think this is an easier argument to make if you believe all roads lead to God. Otherwise the fact that the same "something" happens to Muslims and Hindus and Pagans seems to be a problem.
I think that you are right in that you can't conclude that Christ is real, simply by pointing to those who have faith, but at the same time, I do not believe that those who no longer profess Christ gives any credence to Christ not existing, either.
Faith, belief, and knowledge are difficult concepts to scrutinize. By their nature, there will be contradictions. If someone confesses Christ is real, and then denounces him, there was an error in their thinking at some point. Either they were wrong when they professed him, or were wrong when they denounced him, he can't be both real and imaginary. I agree that it could mean that Christ is not real, and a person simply realized they were fooling themselves, but there is also no reason why the same person could not be fooling themselves now. It's the same process of cognitive dissonance at work. You either lie to yourself that there is something at work, or you lie to yourself that it was all in your mind. Both are possible. If someone is able to fool themselves to such a degree that they believe in Christ where they live their whole life in a dramatic way, there is no reason why someone couldn't simply believe that it was all in their mind, even though Christ is real.
Of the examples of my friends in particular, their faith was never that strong to begin with. Their faith in general, or lack thereof, really does not prove anything one way or another. For someone to point to their denouncing Christ really means no more than someone saying Christ must exist since they professes him.
Of the more dramatic examples I can think of, I did not know them personally. One was a Pastor of many years, who woke up one morning and said, "I can't do this anymore, this whole thing is a lie." The other was a born-again Christian, at least allegedly, who gave a very convincing account of why the Holy Spirit doesn't exist. They both could be right, in theory. The second guy in particular, explained what I said earlier, that it was all in his mind, that it was cognitive dissonance. He could be right, but that's the problem with cognitive dissonance, you don't know you're employing it. Both sides makes sense - you don't want to live the Christian life anymore for whatever reason, and it's easier to tell yourself Christ is not real, or you want Christ to be real, for whatever reason, so you convince yourself he is.
I have struggled with my faith in the past, as well. When I was at the peak of my addictions, I began to think that it would be better if Christ was not real so I could just let go, and I naturally wanted to downplay all my faith.
My point from before was not that the "proof" (which is a word I don't like to use, but use for communication sake) is necessarily concrete evidence that Christ is real. That is why I said that I couldn't prove Idi's credentials, but that you would meet someone named Idi. I'm leaving room for doubt and error. I can't be sure that Christ is real, no more than you are, but that when you sign the deed over, there will be a change that takes place and Christ will speak to you. Just like when I type this message, someone responds to me (hopefully?). Maybe that's not the best analogy in terms of knowledge and belief, but you get my point. There is evidence that happens when you do sign over your life. Can I prove that this is without a doubt truth? No. I believe it is, based on my life, the bible, and the Christians that are close to me.
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Edit: and the cognitive dissonance isn't unbeatable
Not unbeatable, but if you are willing to concede that someone can live a Christ-centered life in error, then the opposite would have to be true.
Edit: Sorry for the long post, feel free to cut as much as you want if you want to respond.