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Originally Posted by Doggg
The word itself is gendered, dude.
You are literally referring to a woman's uterus when you use it.
I don't understand, honestly, how people miss this connection with, say, what a "hysterectomy" refers to.
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Originally Posted by LEMONZEST
I am not disagreeing with you regarding etymology. However, in common usage I don't think it connotates gender anymore than a word like "emotional".
As much as it pains me to say it, Doggg is right here.
It isn't just the etymology, it is that the word has a long history of being used to describe in particular women being crazy in a way it just hasn't been used for men. Kind of like yes you can compare white people to monkeys, but there is a much stronger historical association of the slur being used for black people.
Note that there is a standard nongendered connotation (that of being funny) but when used as a criticism equivalent to crazy this undoubtedly has heavily gendered history.