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Old 08-09-2010, 04:01 AM   #1
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Girlfriend broke up with me because I am not Christian

So I was dating this girl for 11 months. Pretty cute. Mexican but not too Mexican (not trying to be racist). I was crazy for this girl.

We were in love and all that bs, but I knew that she would never truly accept me because I am atheist and shes a hardcore Christian. She had always wanted me to convert to Christianity, but it always failed. I tried going to church a couple of times with her to try it out, but I just couldn't accept that there was such a thing as God.

Other than the whole religion thing, our relationship was pretty good and I didn't think that there was anything wrong with it. We always had fun together, hanging out at the beach, going to the movies, etc. We hardly argued and maybe had 1 religious argument the whole 11 months we were together, but it wasn't that serious.

Today, she finally broke up with me. She just couldn't accept the fact that I did not hold the same religious believes as her. I guess the thought of me being atheist bothered her the whole time, but she had this thought in the back of her mind that told her that she could change me. Eventually, I guess she gave up on that notion.

I feel pretty bummed right now. I just don't understand why religion is such a big flippin deal. Enough to the point that its worth breaking up with someone over. Someone plz enlighten me, because i just don't understand why religion is so important.
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Old 08-09-2010, 04:09 AM   #2
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I feel pretty bummed right now. I just don't understand why religion is such a big flippin deal. Enough to the point that its worth breaking up with someone over. Someone plz enlighten me, because i just don't understand why religion is so important.
What did she say when you asked her?
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Old 08-09-2010, 04:13 AM   #3
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What did she say when you asked her?
Im guessing your talking about when I asked her why religion was so important. She couldn't explain it really well, but she basically said that she values God over everything. Its more important to her than her family, friends, bfs, etc. So as long as i could not accept God, the relationship wouldnt work out because it was soooo important to her. She never said why really.
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Old 08-09-2010, 04:19 AM   #4
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Is she Catholic?
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Old 08-09-2010, 04:22 AM   #5
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Re: Girlfriend broke up with me because I am not Christian

F her op , if she can't accept you for who you are then you shouldn't be with her anyhow . She knew this from the start , so ask yourself why now all of a sudden it can't work ? She would have known that from the get go . There is more to it than the fact that you are not a christian .
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Old 08-09-2010, 04:37 AM   #6
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F her op , if she can't accept you for who you are then you shouldn't be with her anyhow . She knew this from the start , so ask yourself why now all of a sudden it can't work ? She would have known that from the get go . There is more to it than the fact that you are not a christian .
Well the thing is, is that her older sister had a similar story. Her older sister was seriously dating this one dude for quite a while. Well the dude was Buddhist, and she wasn't too happy about that. She started bringing him to church with her and the dude finally converted to a Christian. They got married soon after and lived happily ever after. True story. Touching, right?

I guess my girlfriend was hoping the same thing happened with me. Eventually, she just gave up i guess. Funny i couldn't see the comparison of me to her brother-in-law until now. I know 100% she broke up with me because of religion.
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Old 08-09-2010, 04:38 AM   #7
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Is she Catholic?
No she is not Catholic. Idk what type of Christian she is because its really complicated.
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Old 08-09-2010, 04:59 AM   #8
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I would do anything for true love, even Pascal's wager.
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Old 08-09-2010, 05:18 AM   #9
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if she doesn't want to be with you because you don't believe in god then she's an idiot and you deserve better. that may sound harsh, but this isn't exactly about some small problem like you constantly leaving the toilet seat up. She's basically saying that she can't love you unless you change your whole world view and turn into something you are not.
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Old 08-09-2010, 05:27 AM   #10
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Someone who dates a guy for 11 months before deciding one of his his core beliefs is not palatable is not healthy relationship material.

Now I sympathize that it may not FEEL that way, and that it probably hurts - but I'm quite certain what I am saying is very sensible.
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Old 08-09-2010, 06:07 AM   #11
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Ouch, know how you feel. If I created a thread along these lines, it'd be "Girl Won't Give me a Shot because I'm not Christian (enough)."

Well, it ain't worth it. No one should force himself to change his entire set of values and perception of reality for anything, least of all a girl.
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Old 08-09-2010, 06:23 AM   #12
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Seems she wanted to just convert you.

Which means you split because of her problems with the missionary position.
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Old 08-09-2010, 07:44 AM   #13
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Re: Girlfriend broke up with me because I am not Christian

Tell her Jesus wouldn't abandon someone for having reservations about faith. Quite the opposite, he would still love that person invariably.

It probably won't work but throw some reverse Christian logic at her in a dieing attempt to salvage the relationship.

If you're real desperate call her up and say you read some of The Bible, cite some verses that sound nice, say you'll reconsider your position and see if you can sell it. Then avoid religious debate the rest of your life.
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Old 08-09-2010, 09:15 AM   #14
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Re: Girlfriend broke up with me because I am not Christian

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No she is not Catholic. Idk what type of Christian she is because its really complicated.
Lets see, you know it means a ton to her and you couldn't even take the time to investigate what it is and now you wonder why she dumped you?

Ok.
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Old 08-09-2010, 09:24 AM   #15
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Yeah, she totally dumped him because he didn't know what denomination she was.

If it's "really complicated" he's probably asked and got a super weird complicated answer.
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