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Originally Posted by batair
Who said dating a religious women (ffs happier breeders who is deluded and brainwashed) is bad. Lying about her most cherished beliefs to stay with her is.
There's a lot more between "lying" and "not lying" when it comes to religion. Religion is a group belonging badge, a set of rituals, a way of approaching life. I probably agree with 95+% of advanced Christianity and Judaism.
And people do it all the time. How often would an acceptably religious person (to her) think about God? 2% of the time? 98% of the time they're not religious, but merely acting like they are. Why does it matter if you push that 98% to 100%, but act the same?
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Why again manipulate them on something thats so important to them that if they found out you were lying they would break up with you. There are plenty of religious women who will date non the religious.
Why do you have to be lying? You're making it sound malicious. I'm talking about opening your mind and heart to another way of living and thinking. As I said I'd be happy to accept 95% of Christian belief and practice. It's ultimately just a way of approaching spirituality and faith, and a vehicle to do things and have communities come to together in certain ways.
As for the moral dimension, I don't believe it's fair for her to lose someone she would otherwise like and love because her family and community brainwashed her and are bigoted.
Last edited by ToothSayer; 07-30-2017 at 01:35 PM.