if you search your name in google and ****, nothing is gonna come up. i mean, these people don't know you in real life. do people in your life ever look at this ****? Trust me, i know how it is when people talk **** about me. they talk **** all the time about how i look and my weight. and people do that in real life too.

I play poker, I'm surrounded by men almost constantly and for the most part its fun, but people are fake as **** and dudes are so ****ing judgmental and get personal on me. if you're a girl who plays poker, you know that your dating options are pretty limited if you date in the poker world. once you date like 2 or 3 people, they're destined to know each other and you get labeled a slut without even doing anything. you should know that other women have to experience the same thing you do.

and sleeping with a married man? whatever, i'm not judging you because i wanna work with girls like you - low self esteem, constantly seeking approval, and not understanding your actual potential. but you gotta know that the way you came about this forum wasn't exactly the greatest first impression. and everyone knows how hard it is to change a first impression.

when you respond and make yourself seem like the victim when you're actually not (you're a ****ing player ffs), you're just going to fuel all the trolls. just get over it. easier said than done, but damn. don't give these ****ers more material. you're almost asking for it.

oh ya, and seeking approval from men shouldn't be a priority. you should find approval within yourself.

**** THIS TL;DR SRS BIZ ****

Then stop self-defending!
Who cares what randoms on the internet think of you?

Like, honestly, I take the internet too seriously but I never search for my name on the forums so that I can see what **** people are saying about me.
Those people are probably far more miserable than you are. Responding to them is giving them too much credit and makes you look pretty self-involved.

Focus on the positives not on the negatives.

tartufo, you are 40-45?

to many clothes

no sir

thinly veiled "I'm jealous of your hair" complement.

wtf, you have to be atleast 35 to master the art of self-fisting .. ok, I dont ask if u dont tell, wait what

Chipa, you do have very nice hair and I am indeed jealous and wish my hair was nicer.

If you need help you can just ask for it. No need to go about it in such a convoluted way.

lube lube and more lube? je duais parte

i have an old north face fleece that i'd probably use!

at some point you have to be honest to yourself and admit more lube isn't going to make the difference between success and failure

thank you.

Because as you get older your ******* naturally loosens a bit?