Shania you are not posting the whole story.
To China:
I was not lurking at all. I didnt even read your post until maybe 2 weeks later. I just wanted to know what the community thought about the issue, and had no intention of posting anything myself. I just felt like you were taking our game away and have always learnt from others this is wrong. However no one seemed to agree on this case so I learned that in this case the verdict is not out. I have no problem with you at all anymore (only had one and that got settles by the community).
But I dont think you know who I am apart from my nickname at a lot of sites. Would like to hear though who you think I am and why

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To Shania:
Shania I was playing with him on a HU table before that and followed him there. We had played at least 200 hands and he won quite a bit. Then I followed him to the 4 handed table (i see no problem here), as he said he was tired and wanted to quit. At that table there was one other player who played 2 hands and then sat out. At this point we were heads up again. Then, after maybe another 60 or 70 hands u joined and I asked him if he wanted to continue on a HU table, as we had been playing HU for a while on the 4 handed.
I dont mind if you have any problems with me but I dont think its fair to start accusing me of stuff, especially if you only tell the parts that make me look bad. I blocked your chat because u were obviously furious, cursing at me, and I felt like there was no more use in talking to you.
I try to keep my ethics as good as possible and adhere to what I think is correct behaviour (for example it is extremely rare to see me cursing at a player, reg or non reg alike, and no matter what they have done). When I read the posts it seemed like most people agreed with China so I decided that was the consensus (after that a few more people agreed with me and the balance shifted to about 50/50).
Well thats my side of the story, hope it makes some stuff clear.
Regards,
Akroma