Hey Man,
You are not alone. I did a month in Vegas grinding, found myself really killing my opportunity to put in sober hours, only played sober hours, mostly. First night in, after driving all day, drank, played ... it went badly. Not like $20k badly but ... I too have some form of mental illness, and I understand how you can have highs and lows. I give big props to guys like pokermonk that are willing to talk about mental health, which is very important in poker. That sick mind, can be a double edged sword.
Found myself, in Vegas, (sample size) paid my bills grinding for 3 weeks, car needed work I couldn't do where I was. Be a big chunk, to pay a mechanic for all the problems, work I could do, and have done since then, but I needed to be home. So, I limped home.
Look, I understand about self medication and everything, but do you have a physical addiction to alchohol? Like, if you went one week would you have a physical reaction? That's addiction, that's physical addiction. I make sure to go days, sometimes weeks at a time without any alchohol. I binge drink. I never drink less than a 12 pack, and then I go on the internet and post stupid ****.
So, I pretty much confirmed what I already knew. I could grind 1/2 games and make a profit. Really ran pretty average, and I have played enough to know what running good and bad feels like, so I think I can quantify it a little better.
Yah know, my mental illness is still somewhat undefined, but just not drinking alchohol, like I said I might go 10 days without a beer, does wonders for my psyche. That was pretty much what I figured was, I could keep paying $1k a month at the Royale, grinding, if I quit drinking.
There have been further ventures into the not drinking thing, trying to exercise, eat better, be healthier. I turned 47 recently. I have arthritis already. Sucks. Your effort is often unrewarded, people want to take your money, that's poker, and it's not fun all the time. I already knew that. I'm pretty much out of the game today. I was profitable in 2016 ... but ****ty hourly. 1/2 sucks. Too much rake. 130ish sessions, 16 in Vegas. Profitable this year too, just really your hourly is gonna suck, over time unless you move up. I have better things to do with my time.
I dunno, I never filed my taxes as a pro, so ... that may be another story ... but my advice, from a guy with similar issues is ... work on getting longer and longer times inbetween when you drink, or if you want less and less each day. Alcohol is temporary solution to a long term problem. It's way -EV over time. I still smoke cigarettes, so who the hell am I to talk, and I still drink, but I can take it or leave it. I'll start right now, one week, no alchohol. But I am not physically addicted to it, like I am nicotine. Auit smoking for a week, I can't do that. But there ar challenges,,there are things you can do to be healthier which will help you be happier. Eat or drink some yogurt, every day, is something I have been doing. Of course, not playing poker. Not for real, anyway. Table selection, over time ... and room selection ... when to play where, is gonna be huge in Vegas. Literally will make or break you, game selection, being healthy and sober. Those 3 things are all like required,,or you will eventually mess it up.
I also loled at "I think my purpose in life is just to remain buzzed" ... I hear you brother, but ... yah know ... that's a difficult thing to manage, long term. If you stick tto weed and beer, yah know ... you'll be OK. I won't even drink wine anymore, hard liquor, even if I mix it, and I realize it's the same thing, just sayin ... I stick to beer. Hard stuff, every day ... Not good. You know it too. Start with some limits, like just beer and just after 5 PM, stuff like that.
Eta: Meditation, mindfullness, setting goals, positive visulaization can't hurt, right?
Last edited by FredEx2; 03-04-2017 at 03:45 AM.