A lot has happened here in the recent past and all of it far from unexpected to many of the good players online. There have always among my poker friends, been talks about 'how can this guy be a coach' on X site? I can think of a few guys on all the training site I wouldn't even talk about a hand history with let alone pay for something. One scammer in particular, I called over a year ago because I watched one video for ten minutes, and was speechless at the things he said and did. Ultimately if you are coached by these individuals you were the sucker. Not the site that you found them on, because you paid to have that service.
I am not an ATT customer any longer. It is not because I think they don't deserve to make money. It is because their service was not of a quality I expect for my money. Their network sucks where I live, but in all honesty if they want to pay ESPN for 5 minutes of commercials per hour not a single one of us has the right to say they can't. They have a right to advertise coverage to 97% of Americans without disclosing that they mean for voice calls not data. They have a right to say they have as much data coverage as anyone else in the country but not tell you what speed it is. Our right comes in not giving them our money if we dont think they deserve it.
Ultimately thats the truth and thats where the blame lies.
Part 1
First and foremost your coach should have references. REALLY REALLY GOOD REFERENCES. If not he should be coaching you for free or for 1/2 the BI of the stake you are being coached at. IMO if you pay half to a coach with no ref's you are a sucker. He needs to prove he can effectively coach and doesn't deserve anything close to his hourly in his 'regular games' before he can provide this. I know probably 10-15 guys I talk to across AIM/Skype/MSN that are or have been coaches personally and they ALL coached a few guys for free. Afterwards they asked the player things like:
- Did I explain my thoughts well?
- Did I answer your questions effectively?
- Did you learn from me?
- Do you think you can apply this now?
- Will it make you a better player?
- Would you pay me for what I just showed you?
- If you paid me for this session, would you come back for more coaching?
- Would you be a reference and if we keep lessons coming would you eventually graph your progress for me?
No honest, articulate, confident person would take your money until they KNOW that players like yourself say yes to all these questions.
Part 2
Maybe there is a coach that isn't outed on one of the training sites. If there is that site is a sucker. Your coach should have his site names revealed in his ad, along with a graph. Not only that but ask him to send you a penny from one of those posted graphs. It's nit picking, its a bit of hassle but its not asking too much.
"Hey I see that you are a 3.2bb/100 winner at 400nl 6max and you say you 12 TABLE! That's awesome. Your graph looks good, you seem really nice and I like your posts in forums. Would you mind shipping me a penny from (screen name for that site). I just want to be careful with my money. Ill send you $5, you send me back $5" That didn't sound obnoxious did it? He/she should oblige this request immediately. If the site has a minimum transfer its going to be approximately $5. Ship him $5 and as him to ship it back. Make sure the names are EXACT.
THIS IS SO IMPORTANT. PTR (PM ME IF YOU WANT TO KNOW WHAT THAT IS) AND MAKE SURE THE PTR MATCHES HIS GRAPH AND NAME THAT HE SHIPPED FROM.
Part 3
This is SOO simple. I have been doing this since 2005. Nobody knows everything. Nobody plays every hand of poker they play perfectly. So what does this mean? Its really simple.... read on.
Sometimes I read a strategy thread. I see posts and agree with some and not with others. I typically at this point know who is right in the responses if I didn't know that answer right away. But when I first started and to this day I will search someones posts if their answer is terrible bad are terribly interesting. If they are always interesting and get people thinking then cool. But if its always interesting and wrong, or just plain wrong I am putting you on the forums 'ignore list' with lightning speed. I play for fun, but its a positive income hobby. I am not here to waste time. I save that for BBV and Reg threads.
Apply the same thing to your coaches. Find out their training site name for the forums, their 2p2 name, their P5's name (lol if they post there) or any other site. Read their STRAT THREAD posts and see if they are smart. Are they right. Do other good players agree with them? If the good players don't then they better be really solid in the other aspects of this thread, and probably you can find a better coaching option.
Part 4
Post count and tenure dont mean they are rock star poker players. They go a long way here. Finding swaps/stakes/friends on 2p2 is not hard since I have been here since 2005. But I am by no means a great poker player.
In summary you can find out a lot on the internet with a little work and ten minutes of your time. Do it. These guys outing bad coaches are far from articulate, seem to have terrible social skills and are not intelligent enough to know before hand they are being scammed but still eventually figure it out. Prove you are smarter and do these things.
Last edited by ChicagoRy; 06-10-2010 at 07:32 PM.
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